Punishments and Forfeits - Preparations for next Weekend

 Next weekend is the very much looked forward to weekend where Madam will go and spend the weekend with Mistress Carol and I will host kerri here at our home.

Sir will be using this time to go and see his daughters.  

With all of this plans, Madam is referring to the weekend as the "Girls Weekend".  which is not a bad way of describing it.  However the plan for my weekend is not for me to have some time with kerri as a girlfriend, actually Madam is handing her submissive husband over to Mistress Kerri.

Madam heading south next weekend.

Now just to be clear, kerri is a very special friend to me, and we would both say that she is my girlfriend but she has at several times in the past acted as a Dominant to me, so having Mistress Kerri come and visit will not be something unexpected.

Back in January I made a request to help a friend out but I needed permission from Madam to do this favour, and in doing so I made a deal with the Devil - Madam's wicked side! The deal was that she would allow me to do the "favour" and help make it happen - but it would cost me a number of forfeits and punishments.  over the last couple of months I have had some restrictions applied to me or for additional spankings or increase in punishment rates - such as a punishment that would normally be 6 with the paddle would become 10 with the paddle.

The last of these forfeits and punishments will be delivered this coming weekend while I serve as a submissive to Mistress Kerri.  One of the forfeits that I know of is that I will not be allowed out of my chastity next weekend.  The rest?  Well that will be upto Mistress Kerri.

However, Saturday afternoon resulted in me being tasked with carrying out some training and preparations to get ready for next weekend.

In the morning as I was clearing up the kitchen Madam came in and told me that I was to come to the study at 2.30pm, in my french maid uniform and be prepared to undergo some tasks.  

At the allotted time I presented myself at the open door of Madam's study and she was at her desk typing away at her laptop. She looked up and I bobbed a curtsey and she looked at me and simply said "Corner!" and went back to typing.  I quickly went to the corner of the room where I usually stand for corner punishments, faced the wall with my hands placed behind my back and waited until Madam had finished whatever she was working on (it was an email apparently).

I was called to be in front of her desk and given a quick inspection where it was noted that I didn't have my leather collar on and Madam noticed a scuff mark on my shoes.  Both points were added to the weekly review book for next Thursday.

Madam explained what was going to happen for the afternoon.  Firstly I would return to the corner for 15 minutes and while there I was to mentally compose a letter to Mistress Kerri where I was to ask her to punish me.  I was to explain why I needed to be punished and why it must be done by her.  This 15 minutes thinking time would be important because as soon as I complete my corner time I would be released to the dining room to type up the letter.  I would have 30 minutes for this task.  I was not to send the letter but Madam would review it prior to being emailed to Mistress Kerri.  If it was not of an appropriate submissive standard then Madam would add a punishment to the review book.

While I worked at typing up my grovelling letter to Mistress Kerri, Madam was busy going around the house and setting small cards and items on the floor  in each room.

I finished the letter and Madam told me to save the letter and then email it to her.  I was told to go to the Study and I would find Madam's strap-on fixed to chair that I usually bend over for punishments.  I was to kneel on the provided cushion and spend 15 minutes practising my oral skills.  I was to use the timer on my mobile in count down mode.

Once dismissed by Madam I went straight to the study and quickly set the time on my phone and then went onto my task.  Occasionally Madam would come in and make a comment for me to speed up, slow down  or to lick the length. 

With that task complete I was told that I was to go and get changed out of the French Maid uniform and to go and put on my short Cuckold Maid uniform complete with my wig and that I had 10 minutes.

So with a mad dash to my room to get out of one dress, and all of it's accessories, and into the other uniform.  All the time trying to make sure that it was just right as I suspected that I would be inspected again.  This time I also made sure to add the collar.

Photo taken by Madam during the later tasks

I presented myself back in Madam's study and again was inspected.  Madam picked up the following:

• I was 40 seconds late.
• Suspenders were not even.
• my skirt was not sitting even over my petticoat.
• There was a twist in the side straps of my apron

All of these points were now added to the review book.

With the inspection complete, I was now going to start the next task.  This would see me carry out a variety of tasks. I was to start by going to the kitchen where I would find a card with a task, I was to read the card and then carry out the task and then the card would state where I was to go for the next task.  Madam asked if I had any questions, which I didn't, so I was dismissed to start my tasks:

• Kitchen sink Card - Go to Madam's bedroom, face the wardrobe mirror and carry out 5 deep curtseys, return back to this card.  Once returned.  Go to next task in the living room.  this task was straight forward, I made the point of walking between tasks as I had no idea how long this was going to take but I had a feeling t was going to be a long afternoon.
• Living Room card - Go to the Greenhouse in the garden and read the temperature on the Thermometer and return and write it on this card.  Go to next task at the dining room table. Madam was sat in the living room reading a book I curtseyed as I came in the room and then read the task.  I curtseyed to Madam again and then left heading out the back and down the garden to get the temperature and then get back before it started to rain again.  Curtseying to Madam I went and wrote the temperature on the card and then headed to the next task - Madam pointed out that I had forgotten to Curtsey on leaving the room and she would add it to my review book.
  
  
  
• Dining Room, Card - Go to Madam and ask to kiss her shoes, return here. Go to next task at the Guest bedroom. I returned to the living room making sure that I curtseyed and then humbly asked if I could kiss Madam's shoes.  Madam said that I could but she would tell me when I could move onto the next shoe.  For about 5 minutes I knelt and placed full kisses on the toes of Madam's court shoes.  Once compete I stood, curseyed and headed back to the card.
• Guest Bedroom Card - Go to your phone and send the following text message to Mistress Kerri "Ms Kerri, I have been a bad sissy and I want you to punish me.", leave phone in the study and return to card. Go to next task at utility room.  With my phone still in the study I went directly there and quickly sent the text.  We normally use WhatsApp for messaging between all of us but the card was quite specific that this should be a text message.  with the message sent I returned to the card before moving onto the next task.
• Utility Room Card - Set everything up for taking a photograph, Find Mistress and ask her to take a photo of you in an exposed position.  On completion of all tasks you are to send it Mistress Kerri. Go to next task  which is in the Post box at the Garden gate.  I quickly set up the area that we use for photos, making sure the back drop sheet was in place and then got the tripod with the small lighting ring was in place and switched on.  I then went and got the camera and the old phone that we normally use for taking photos, turning them on and checking for battery power.  I then went to ask Madam if she would assist me in taking the photo. (I ensured that I curtseyed, I was racking up quite a few punishments for my next review already.)  The task stated that I should be exposed, as I was wearing my open crotch knickers I decided that I would bend over and hold my ankles.  The photo was duly taken and Madam also made me pose for  a couple more photos while I was there as well.
  
  
  
• Post box Card - Face the road and do 10 slow curtseys, you must stay next to the post box throughout this task.Go to next task in the study.  I collected the key to the post box and left from the front door directly to the post box at our gate,  while we do have a screen of trees and a hedge  around the front of the house the gate way is quite wide and open.  I read the task and just knew that Madam would be watching me from the living room.  So in in my short maids uniform I stood by the post box facing the road and started my 10 curtseys.  The lane that we live on is generally quiet but you do get the odd car and delivery van or the occasional walkers heading to the wooded areas and their various paths.  I was at curtsey number 8 when a car went past, the worst part is you can hear it coming.  there is nothing that I could do but continued on and finished the task.  The car went flying past and I have no idea if they spotted a grey haired sissy in a short maids dress doing a curtsey towards them - if they did it would probably give them something to talk about!  With task complete it back to house and into the study.  
  
  
  
• Study Task card - Send Sir a WhatsApp message saying that you want to suck his cock, you will then kneel and practice oral skills on the strap on for 10 minutes. Go to the next task at the front door. I sent the message using the whatsapp group that includes Madam so that she could see that I had completed that task and then I set the count down timer and got into position and started my 10 minutes of oral training.  in the middle of my session there was a response to the message but I ignored it until the phone timer went off and I had completed the task.  The reply from Sir was 2 emojies -    👍😁.  so onto the next task.
• Front door Card - There are 10 envelopes on the window cill next to the back door.  You are to take each envelope to the post box one at a time and post them into the box, you are not to travel through the house. You must only walk.  Go to the next task on the dresser of Madam's Bedroom. So at the back door was a small stack of sealed envelopes I picked up the first of them and then headed out, we now had some rain just to add to my woes.  So out of the back door, to the back garden gate, round the side of the house, to the front of the house and then across the drive to the post box, pop in the letter and then back the same way.  Madam was stood at the front window watching me totter back to the path.  the task was completed but by the end of it I was quite cold and damp from the rain.  I returned to the front door and then headed onto the next task location.
• Madam's Bedroom Task - There are 3 envelopes, you are to pick one and then to go and find Madam and ask her to allow you to be put over her knee and to spank you.  The envelopes contain a number that will be the number of spanks that you will get.  Madam will give you your final task. I selected the middle envelop and headed back down to the living room, curtseyed and presented my self to Madam and asked her if it would be possible for her to give me an over the knee spanking.  while giggling to herself she said that she would but I was to go and get a towel to place over her lap as I was so damp.  She said that the spanking would warm me up.  I curtseyed and quickly went and got  the towel and came back.   Madam showed me the envelope that I had chosen and it showed the number 15 on a card inside.  So with a towel over her lap I placed myself over her knees and without removing my knickers (well they aren't thick or much protection) she proceeded to warm my bottom with the 15 spankings to each of my bum cheeks.  when complete I got up and bobbed a curtsey and thanked Madam for my spanking.
  
  
  
• Madam's final task - Take the key for the post box, go out the back door and go and open the box and select one of the ten envelopes and return with it to Madam. So once again I was headed out the back door into the rain, armed with the post box key.  My wig was rather soaked now and I could feel the water running off it onto my shoulders.  I quickly opened the post box and picked an envelop and headed back to Madam via the back door.  After a curtsey I handed the envelop to Madam who opened it and then handed it to me.  on the card inside was a list of punishments that I was to complete next weekend with Mistress Kerri.

     The punishments are:

• 2 x 20 minutes corner time each day, in a room specified by Ms Kerri
• 10 lashes with the Cane prior to going out each evening.
• 3 x 30 minute sessions with the TENs unit and with nipple clamps fitted at any point over the weekend.
• 2 x 30 minute sessions in restrictive bondage.
• All Review Night punishments will be deferred to be carried out by Ms Kerri at some point over her visit.

It had the look of being a rather sore and uncomfortable weekend with Mistress Kerri!

Madam told me go and get a hot shower and to come back dressed in skirt and blouse, there was no rush as Sir wouldn't be back for a while .  I was very grateful to get the rather soggy wig off and to get out of the uniform.  My laundry basket was now full and I went and warmed back up in the shower.

When I came out of my room dressed Madam was in the kitchen and handed me a mug of coffee.  She gave me a very nice kiss and told me to come and join her on the sofa in the living room.  She told me that she would pass on all the details to kerri and that I shouldn't worry about it.  well that was easy for her to say, it would be my backside that would be suffering the consequences.  For the next hour we had a bit of time together on the sofa and then when we heard John's car pull in through the drive, I was told to go put the kettle on for all 3 of us and Alice went to meet him at the door.

When I came into the living room with the coffee's I got a wink from John and he commented that he'll have my offered Blow Job later when he and Alice got back from the evening out.  

So with the exception of the punishments for next weekend I completed the last of my afternoon's tasks at about Midnight.

billie xxx 

How to get ideas for keeping things interesting

 From Madam Alice:

In any relationship it is important to make sure that things don't get stale, staid or boring.  I am always on the look out for ideas  for things to try and to do in our relationship.  Things that will be interesting and that fit with our FLR, things that work for billie and myself, John and me, and for all three of us.

We are also lucky in that John also gets this concept for the relationship and does contribute, and most importantly he understands that there are 3 of us in this relationship and that is probably why this relationship has worked so long.

One of the methods that I use is to set billie a task, we used to this everyday but it started to take too much time, now we use it generally twice a week.  The each task is based on one of the following questions:

• Find me 10 images that you think I would like and tell me why?
• Find me 10 images that you like and tell me why?
• I have provided 5 images, what do you like about them and what don't you like about them? provide a sentence answer to each.
• Find 5 gifs or short clips that would be useful for the blog and tell me why?
• From your blog reading list find me a post that is different or thought provoking?
• From social media find me a post that you agree with and a post that you disagree with? (no politics!)
• Today post at least 2 comments to blogs that you follow and tell me why you posted those comments. (* when I use this task I make a point that he can't use our blogs or those of Poppet or Sara Girl as he reply's regularly on their sites.)
• Find 5 images that you think John would like and tell me why you think that is the case?
• Find 5 images that you think kerri would like and tell me why you think that is the case?
• Find me 5 interesting BDSM images but don't tell me why you think they are interesting? 
• Find me 5 FemDom images or Memes that I would like?
• Find me 5 images or memes that would make me laugh?
• Find me 5 images or memes that make you smile, tell me why?

The list can go on and on, but these are the common ones.  I save each of the images and the responses into file area and it allows me to get an insight on what billie likes, doesn't like or what interests him and also what he thinks other people may like or be interested in.

With this type of information I can look at developing ideas with billie on things to do, to ramp things up or to calm things down.  It helps to keep things fresh and fun for both of us in the relationship.

A change of Plans for the Weekend - Part 2

From Madam Alice:

Following on from my earlier post.

After the afternoon and evening of dealing with my Sister and her problem of her daughter, Ellie, becoming engaged to David,  Mick and myself had a few drinks to wind down to an element of calm.

We went back to the hotel room and I asked Mick to get changed into something more gurly and to come to bed and make love to me. We had a very lovely hour or so being very intimate with each other, lots of kissing and touching. while it was good to have Mick for the confrontation at my sister's house, I needed billie now to take away my stress and tension, which he did wonderfully. We eventually fell asleep  wrapped together with me snuggled into his satin covered chest and with with my one of my legs laid over his stocking clad legs. (billie remained caged throughout all of this).

In the morning I was woken with billie being up and making a coffee for both of us. I'd had a good sleep and was relaxed and ready for the day.  I was expecting today to be a have less stress than the previous day.  We both just chatted as we had our coffee, with nothing particular in mind, I think billie was being careful not to mention the previous day's discussions so it was a chat that covered the plans for the garden and the veg patch, potential ideas for a trip away and just simple chit chat that couples do.  With coffee finished I went for a shower, while billie shaved.  Unfortunately the shower wasn't big enough for both of us to get in together.

I was part dressed when billie came out of the shower and was dried ready to get dressed.  I had rummaged in our travel bag and laid out what I wanted him to wear -  The cami top he had worn yesterday, hold up stockings and pair of nylon and satin high leg briefs.  He looked at it and voiced a bit of concern, he had worn the cami yesterday and he was going to forego the top as he knew what Ellie was like with her hugging and wandering hands.

I made it clear that I was aware of that but I liked him in his cami top and not to worry about it, he would be fine.  He was about to put on the Wool Jumper he had worn the previous day rather than the rugby shirt that he had originally laid out, I told him to stick with the rugby shirt and gave him a look that told him not to argue with me. I could tell that he wasn't overly happy but I didn't care, he was dressed in a way that I liked.

Once we were both dressed we went to have a very nice leisurely breakfast at the pub next to the hotel, which was very nice.  Having been fed we went back and pack our bag and checked out.  billie suggested that we were still a bit early to turn up at Ellie's and David's place and suggested that we go and bit of a walk for about an hour.  It would also allow us to walk off the breakfast and with it being dry it wasn't a bad idea.  So a short drive to a wooded area that we knew of old and we killed an hour of time just being a couple walking holding hands along the paths and tracks - which was really very nice and I keep forgetting how much I enjoy doing this type of thing.

With the walk done it was back to the car and then a very short drive over to our Niece's house.  As we got nearer billie asked if he could put his fleece bodywarmer on, I patted his leg and told him that the house will probably have the heating on so he wouldn't need it.  I knew why he wanted to wear it.  He dropped the subject.  We arrived and parked at the house.  As we walked up to the door it was opened and Ellie ushered us in and the door was closed. Ellie gave me a very affectionate hug and told us how pleased they were to see us, I was directed to the living room where David was and I got an equally affectionate hug from him.

billie was in the hallway getting his hug from his niece, which I assumed would have been as affectionate and tight as mine.  When he appeared in the living room to meet David, he was some what red in the face and with a slight worried look on his face.  David stepped up to him and they greeted each other and shook hands.

we were offered seats and Ellie asked if we wanted tea or coffee and promptly disappeared to the kitchen to get our coffee's, David sat down and started to chat with us. after a minute or so he said he would just go and help Ellie bring in the tea.  

As soon as he left the room, billie turned to me and with a whispering voice "She knows! What have you told her?" I simply answered him with a smile and "She already knew I just filled in some gaps and corrected some wrong ideas - don't worry she doesn't have all the details....yet."  We halted the conversation there as we heard the couple coming back in with the mugs.

With everyone now armed with a mug of tea or coffee, a small plate of biscuits and all sat down in the living room we started to catch up on all of our news.  it was all very pleasant and enjoyable, We danced about with the conversation for about half an hour and then David politely asked how the family meeting went. I was expecting Ellie to be the one to have brought the topic up but I go the feeling that David knew the discussion would have been focused on him.

For the next hour we talked through what had happened and the fact that we had both stood the corner for both of them, I didn't go into details about "Angry Mick's Rant" but simply assured that Ellie's Uncle had been quite clear and forceful in getting his points across. Ellie gave billie a particular look, which I noticed and I made a note to talk with her about the fact that there are distinct personas and differences with my husband, and that she shouldn't just jump to the conclusion that a submissive is submissive to everyone and to everything all of the time.  My husband is my submissive and is submissive to me, that doesn't stop him from taking a non submissive attitude and standpoint.

We asked how they were getting on with plans for the wedding.  No date was set as yet but they had plans to keep it small and low key.  They were very clear that they were not planning any fancy theme's or gimmicks, but they did warn that they may step away from a traditional wedding -  I got the feeling that would mean that Ellie wasn't planning on wearing white at the wedding!

The pair had been to see David's parents and they were delighted from all accounts, which was really good to hear.

With the lunch still a hour and half away Ellie suggested that David could take Mick to the local pub and they could have a pint together.  It was very much an order dressed up as a suggestion.  So we managed to get rid of the boys out of the house so that I could have a good chat with Ellie.

My first question to her was "What did you do to my husband?" To which she gave a laugh and told me that she had felt for his straps at his shoulder and let him know that she knew about him being called "billie".

It is probably important to give you background. Since her engagement we have been chatting quite regularly.  The phone calls were a mix of general chatting and eventually the truthful questions arrived and then these calls became more about asking for advice and opinions.

So......

Ellie knew that Uncle Mick had had a bit of a breakdown at some point after her and her sister went back to live with her mum.  She also knew that our relationship had changed after that point, her view was, as she got older that we'd had marriage problems like her Mum and Dad and this was our way of dealing with things.  Ellie also mentioned that as she got older and visited us she did notice that Mick tended to do most of the domestic house work (well he did tend to work from home) but she had noticed that the vast majority of the clothes washes were women's clothes, underwear, lingerie and hosiery with only a few pairs of male underwear and socks.  

During one stay she made the observation that based on several washing line contents she had worked out that Mick was changing his underpants every 3 days and socks every 4 days, while I was wearing about 5 pairs of knickers every 2 days and changing stockings at least twice a day.

The pointed question she asked was "Is Uncle Mick a crossdresser or are you making him wear women's lingerie?"  OK we were rumbled, I knew that Ellie was a smart girl.  I asked her if this was why she gave her uncle such affectionate hugs over the recent years?  To which she said yes, she had given him a normal type of hug quite a few years ago and felt something under his top but he broke off the hug before she could confirm it, since then she had been determined to do a better check.

I admitted that I made him wear women's lingerie and stockings.  She wanted to know if it was done "as a punishment or is it something to do with your lifestyle?"  I told her that it wasn't a punishment as such and I asked what did she mean about "our Lifestyle"?

"Do you have a Female Led Marriage?"

Well that was direct and there was only one way to answer that and that was to tell her that "Yes we do, but we tend to call it a FLR, what do you know about FLR/FLMs?"

So from that point on a lot of our conversations were about how we developed our FLR and the relationship between Mick and me and how we have billie.

I had asked her what her interest in all of this was, and she admitted that David was submissive to her, that once they started to be serious with each other as a couple they had had a honest conversation about what they wanted in life and from each other.  The term that she used was that David said he "wanted to be devoted to her." From all accounts and from the examples it does look and sound that he is, physically and emotionally completely devoted to her.  She admitted that she had always been the more assertive in relationships and that probably scared off some of her previous boyfriends but apparently David fitted perfectly with that.

One of my questions early on to her was "did she actually love David or if it was just the fact that he allowed/ accepted this power exchange in the relationship"?.  From the way she answered that question I'm quite reassured that she loves him as much as it appears that he loves her.

She has lots of questions and I have spent lots of time chatting with her, and I'm sure there will be more.  I'm trying to pass on some of the knowledge that Carol passed onto me.  From what Ellie has said she and David are already in a FLR and want to develop it further as they progress to marriage.

During our conversations about how I influence control over billie I let Ellie knows that billie is in chastity, that revelation didn't shock her too much, which surprised me.  she was aware about chastity cages and had seen them mentioned in some of the things she had read about with FLR and FLMs.  I have made it clear that it isn't an essential element of FLR and it hasn't been imposed because I don't trust Mick/ billie.  She has said that it isn't something she wants anyway as she wants to have kids at a point after the wedding.

There are parts of our FLR that I have not shared and won't share until I think she and David are ready for it.  From all accounts she has shared everything that we have discussed with David and I'm sure at some point he will start asking advice from Mick.  I don't know if they even discussed it while at the pub, I suspect not as I think it may take David a little bit of time get the courage to ask.

The boys appeared back close to lunch time.  Myself and Ellie had been dealing with the food and David and billie set about the task of setting the table.  

The Sunday lunch was lovely and the chat across the table was enjoyable and wasn't too serious.  By the time we had finished everything  and were ready to leave we had reassured the young couple that their Aunt and Uncle were on their side and were prepared to support them both. 

As we said our farewells, we both got a very affectionate hug from Ellie and big thank you from her.

Our drive back south had a lot of questions from billie, to which I gave him some of the information about what Ellie knew about us and also about their relationship.    

I planned to give billie all of the details that Ellie and I have discussed on Thursday evening after his weekly review - why then? I want him fully in billie mode and also in an appropriate submissive mindset. (considering this is being finished and published on Saturday, billie is now fully upto speed with things and somewhat surprised that as he was having a drink with David in the pub "the Lad" knew he was wearing lingerie and a chastity!) 

We both agree that Ellie and David really do suit each other and the FLR style of relationship will allow them to be balanced with each other.  There are things that Ellie needs to learn and develop.  Both billie and I agree that we will be prepared to be honest and open with the two of them and be available to advise and guide them when they want us.

The Sunday spent with this young couple made up for all of the angst and annoyance of the Saturday.  I'd say it ended up being not a bad weekend overall.  I now just need to reschedule my original plans into the next few weekends!

Blogger strikes again - It appears I have regressed in age again!

 From Madam Alice

Having published a post last night I was informed by billie this morning that Poppet had left a comment. 

Having finished work a little earlier than usual I thought that I would reply to Poppet's comment but it appears that Blogger/ Blogspot has decided again that I need to verify that I am over 18 as the website has "Sensitive Content".

As you can see I can still create blog posts but as soon as I publish them I can no longer access them, or respond to comments. 

Until we get this resolved I will use billie's account but I'll start the replies with "From Madam Alice".

I thought we had this resolved, never mind! 

Poppet, I will get a reply to you but it will probably be tomorrow.

Keep safe everyone and hopefully no one else will have access issues.

Regards

Alice (Madam)

A change of plans for the Weekend - Part 1

 From Madam Alice:

In the run up to last weekend I had been developing a plan for what I wanted to do with my Darling Submissive Husband, for the next 3 weeks he has a number of punishments and tasks to undertake.

Has he been bad? well not really, they are more of a set of forfeits for something that he did. Now his main punishment will come at the end of the month at the hands (and possibly the crop of kerri) but in the interim I plan to set a few tasks and challenges (and punishments) for billie.

Last Wednesday I started to plan out what I wanted to do with the weekend. There would be tasks to do on Friday night that would humiliate him and I also planned to defer some of his Thursday review punishments to the Friday night with the possibility that John would deliver them on my behalf.

Saturday would be a shopping trip and billie would be off to get some items that I would specify and then back to spend the bulk of the day and evening in his short maids uniform.

Unfortunately things didn't quite go to my plan.

Our Friday evening was disrupted with a number of phone calls, which we ignored upto a point and when I answered, it was from my Sister requesting (almost demanding) that we travel up to Leicester for a "family" meeting. Apparently there is a problem with the marriage of our niece, Ellie, to her fiancé - David, or to be mores specific the problem is that we - myself and my husband had endorsed this marriage. You would think that this was the 1820s not the 2020s!. There was quite a bit of heated discussion on the phone. So much so that both John and billie stopped what they were doing and appeared in the door of the study to check that I was alright.

Needless to say, that curtailed the evening activities somewhat, I had ended the call by saying that we would travel up and take part in this family discussion.

By the time I came back into the living room, the boys had stopped playing and I was handed a Gin and tonic to settle myself down. I was not best pleased, both with the phone call and also with the fact that my plans for the weekend were now going to be shelved.

I have to say the boys were very good and they helped me calm back down, strangely enough by getting me all very worked up, but in a very nice way. My husband on his knees using his tongue on me and my Boyfriend kissing me and playing with my breasts, very nice being the sole focus of attention.

Calming down is probably the wrong term, diverting my attention is probably the better way to describe it.

The two of them continued to keep me as the focus of their attention for the evening and I was very grateful and I'm a very lucky woman.

Saturday morning saw us making preparations for our unexpected trip. Normally we would stay at my Mother's when visiting family but I still had some anger and I asked Mick to try and find a hotel or B&B for us to stay at. I felt that it would be better that we turn up, have our say and then go somewhere we weren't with the family. While Mick made arrangements I contacted Ellie and had a quick call with her. She was aware that the "adults" as she termed us were being called in to discuss things. It appeared that Ellie and David were not invited to this discussion. So I made arrangements that we would come over on Sunday to be with the two of them, which they sounded like they were really pleased to host us for Sunday lunch.

I was determined that I would not have the weekend a total waste of my plans, so I told Mick to make sure that he was wearing lingerie under his male clothes and to pack appropriate clothes for the hotel as I wanted billie to be with me for the night.

So with bags packed we headed north up the M1 for Leicester. As we drove North I mentioned to Mick that I wanted to make a stop at Marks and Spencers before we got to my sisters. I suspected that we would have plenty of time for the discussion/ argument that would occur once we arrived at my sister's house.

My plan for our shopping stop was very simple, billie's last post about his knicker drawer drew several comments, particularly from Poppet and SaraE that there was a lack of colour variety in his drawers. And I fully agree, the gurls are quite correct, my husband's lingerie is predominately black, so we would do something to change that.

Once we had parked up I explained to billie what I wanted him to do. He was to go and look for a pink bra to match his pink panties, he was then to go and look for pair of red knickers. Once he had them he would be required to try and find a member of staff and ask if they could help him find a bra to match the panties that he had selected. He was told to select knickers that were not part of a set.

billie was also told that if the staff member asked what size was required then he was to make it clear that the bra was for him. billie would be shopping on his own and although I would be near he was to ignore me completely until I got back to the car. I would be close enough to hear him talk to the staff and if he didn't follow the instructions I would punish him.

It was interesting to watch my husband perusing all of the lingerie, he has shopped for his and my lingerie so regularly that he isn't bothered by it, he can be quite brazen with it.  

As I wandered about the lingerie section looking at some of the bra and knicker sets I watched billie looking over the Bra sets and select a pink bra and then move onto the knickers and select a very nice bright red pair. I noticed that there was a matching bra next to the knickers but billie ignored them and then went to the hosiery section. He selected a pack of tights and hold ups and then went to the bra section.

Bold as brass he spotted a member of staff and went up to her, I tried to keep up without being obvious that I wanted to eaves drop, just in time to hear this -

"excuse me, do you have any full cup red bras that would go with these knickers?"

"Yes, there are some that are part of same range as those Sir."

"Yes I've seen those but they aren't a full cup style, so I'm looking for an alternative that is a good match."

"we have some over here, what size are you looking for?"

"I take a 38B, if you have it."

I must say a well done to the woman, as she took that statement in her stride and followed it up with a "are you sure you are a 38B? you look like you are probably a 40 or bigger?"

I tried not to burst out laughing but billie took it in his stride and for the next 5 minutes he explained that she was correct but the 38B gave him a secure fit. They chatted and he even explained that that his wife wanted him to have more colour in his lingerie collection. I'm not sure if this is the way that he is like when he normally goes lingerie shopping or if he has been taking lessons from Poppet Sub Slut on being a bit of a public exhibitionist! Fair play to my husband he completed his task and completed it well!

with purchases packed in his bag and back in the car we headed on to the family show down.

billie's purchases

I'm going to condense this next bit down a bit, when we got to my sister's, the main players were there, my sister, her husband and my mother. The welcome was a bit tense apart from my mum who was as friendly as she always is.

It was made clear that my sister was not happy about Ellie wanting to marry David. She didn't like him and made it clear that she considered it a mistake. The other thing that seems to have annoyed her is that we had been present when the engagement had happened.

While I explained that we hadn't known about the plan for the couple to get engaged, I was careful not to mention about David asking us for permission to marry Ellie, I thought that this may have been a bit of information that may have upset my sister even more. 

There was times when the discussion got very heated, my mother was very good as she tried to be a voice of balance. My brother in law, who we had believed to be the one with the problem with David actually turned out to be simply supporting his wife.

So what of my dear husband, well he sat quiet and didn't contribute?  I was getting rather annoyed that he wasn't coming in to help or back me up.  His arse would know my displeasure later at the hotel!  However I was wrong, it appears that my husband wasn't  helping he was just listening and waiting.

The voice I heard speak was Mick, not billie...

"So what's the real reason that you don't like David? whats your problem with the lad?"

My Sister made a rather big mistake with her next comment of "You stay out of this Mick, this is our family business..."

Now Mick swears, quite a bit when he is at work, but when with the family it is very rare, especially when my Mother is around.  Unfortunately my sister had poked the bear and it appears that it had woken up and had it's claws out. please excuse me as this is not 100% accurate but it is as close as I can remember it but the reply was along the lines of this

"Oh you are F**king so F**king right I'm not part of this family, I'm only the F**king incomer to it, but I'd F**king say that I've bought a f**king place at the F**king family table.  Especially as I'm f**k sat in the house that I paid off the F**king mortgage on while you were having your F**king cancer treatment, making sure you fucking didn't have any money worries when you came out of Hospital."

"Or that I took a F**king job away from home to cover the bills of us looking after your daughters while you were ill!"

"Or that I f**king went to Aberdeen to save your f**king marriage, because you had driven him (my brother in law) away by F**king not telling him you were ill with cancer, you had made the poor bastard's life hell, he thought he was at f**king fault for the way you were unhappy!"

"Or the fact that I f**king put my business on hold for 6 weeks last year to come to f**king Leicester to look after your mother, when you live 2 miles away and didn't bother coming over to help, But your Girls and David did!. SO WHATS YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM WITH THE LAD!"

I must say I was rather impressed to watch Angry Mick in action, I was very proud of my husband (I'm always proud of him).  Mick had cut through all the arguments and everyone looked at him and then we all looked at my sister and she simply blurted out "My daughter is a lawyer and he's only a warehouse worker, he's not good enough for Ellie!"

"You f**king snob! I started out as a labourer on a building site, Alice was a Office assistant when I married her! For your information David worked in a warehouse before he went to Uni! He continued working part time at the warehouse during his course to cover his living costs, He has a degree in Logistics management, he have a very small student debt, he now has a job as a Logistics Manager with a Major UK Company and has a better wage than Ellie!  I strongly suggest you get your facts right and F**king get over your F**king problem with the Lad!"

I want to give a couple of observations, when Mick is in full flow he is very good and his use of profanity is very effective, I think that we can safely say that Mick likes David, and I also liked the way he kept referring to David as "the Lad".

Mick then turned to me and said in a quieter voice "Right then Dear, I think we're done here. Shall we go?"

I must say, that was an ideal way to end the discussion/ argument.  We left the house and drove to the hotel, Mick apologised in the car for swearing in front of my Mother, I did point out he did a bit more than just swear, it was more of a tirade of swearing.

We got to the hotel, dropped our bags and went and had a drink in the pub next door.  I'd say that Mick earned his Whisky (which he did ask me if he could be allowed to have a drink.)

Once we had a another drink each Mick made the comment that he wondered what they would think if they knew he had just ranted at them while wearing a chastity cage, stockings and lingerie under his male clothes?  The idea of that made both of us laugh at the thought!

I'll draw a close here as this has taken longer that I had hoped but there is more to tell of our weekend in Leicester, I'll finish writing up Part 2 in the next day or so, as our day with Ellie and David was quite interesting for billie.