Archive - What's in a Name? - Thoughts from Mistress Alice

Sun, 16 Jul 2017 

From Mistress Alice

Good Evening, billie is off playing with John at the moment - not in that way -  they are off playing a game of golf.  Yes my Boyfriend and Cuckolded Husband do get on and like each other in the vanilla world. 

There is a slight difference with that and we have had the question emailed to us so if there is one person asking then there is probably more.  We were asked how we balance and control our vanilla and the "kinky" & cuckold side. 

Well when we started this Female Lead Relationship so many years ago - back in 2002, we talked through what we both needed in our relationship as a couple and also as individuals and then then we looked at how realistic that could be achieved.  one of the things we realised was some aspects would impact on our families and also on our work life.  we didn't want to get either side mixed up. 

So we decided that my Hubbie would have 2 names.  His first name is actually Michael, most people know him as Mick, but I felt that was too masculine - in either form- so I wanted something less male, his middle name is William and a shortened form is Bill.  so by making it billie (we use Billie with ie as it has a more sissy connection rather than a more masculine Billy). 

This allows us to switch between vanilla life where Mick and Alice  interact with family, friends and work associates, and where Mistress Alice and submissive (sissy) billie play.  It also allows us to be comfortable with the company and roles we "play" at each moment in time. 

So this evening Mick and John have been for a late afternoon round of golf and probably a pint of beer (shandy for Mick as he is driving) and Alice has been doing a bit of cooking and internet viewing ready for when her boys get back.  Once they get back Mick will be sent to change and billie will be the maid for the evening and will serve dinner for her Mistress and Master.  It works and it makes sure that we all Know our places....... 

Archive - The Weekend Starts Now.

Fri, 14 Jul 2017

I've finished my work in the office and it is now a case of getting ready for Mistress Alice coming home at 5pm and then Master John arriving about 6pm. 

I have to get changed into my Maids Outfit and ensure that Madam's Bedroom is clean tidy and the bedding is changed.  The En-Suite clean and all toiletries  ready for Mistress and her lover.  this includes making sure that there is suitable quantities but discrete placed tubes of lubricant.  Madam will text me about 3pm what outfits she will want prepared (ironed and laid out) for this evening and tomorrow and in particular what lingerie she will wanted, she will also let me know if she wants me to be in a particular outfit.  Of course there could even be a  message from Master John as well if he has any particular requirements or instructions. 

By 4.30pm, I will have to have to have changed out of my working uniform, showered, enema and then changed into my fresh maids outfit with my serving lingerie - longline bra, girdle, open backed panties (the front to support my chastity cage and the back open for.... well just in case) and plain top black stockings.  my heels will be 5" (it has a 1" platform) and I will have my plug fitted in my ass.  I will have some make up on but there is no wig - it is to be clear that I am Madam's submissive husband.  

The wine will be chilling and it will be ready for when Mistress arrives, as soon at the Gate buzzer sound (we have a set of electric gates on the drive) I will have enough time to pour Madam a glass of white wine and be at the front door ready to welcome my Mistress home.

And that will be how the weekend will starts.  I'll have to wait and see how Madam wishes me to greet her Boyfriend when he arrives a little later. 

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Yes and no,  I'm used to the working maids uniform now, as I've been wearing them for years, I still get that rush of humiliation when in my formal/ fancy maids outfit - bear in mind I'm normally not wigged, I'm a submissive male in a dress and while it is still humiliating it is also a massive turn on as well.  it give conflicting emotions as well as straining my cage.

Archive - Its Time to get ready for the Weekend

Thu, 13 Jul 2017 

Master John, Mistress Alice's Boyfriend, will be over as usual tomorrow evening.  He normally stays until first thing Monday Morning.  Thursday night is when I start to mentally prepare for the weekend...... 

Archive - 3 Days of the Road - Its Good to be home

Thu, 13 Jul 2017 1

As a rule I work from home with an office next to our house, it allows me to be a House Husband (Wife?) for the majority time and then once my domestic duties are done I can go to my office and deal with my business.  Most of my work is done via on line or using apps such as Skype but occasionally I have to go out to meet clients and work through projects at their offices. 

So Monday morning saw me out on the road heading for York, a lovely city,  having said bye to my Mistress, and confirmed that I was still caged and dressed appropriately.  now this isn't unusual and I am required to be wearing stockings at all times - day and night.  As a rule I have to have my "working" stockings which are usually purchased from Debenhams - either barely blacks or bronze.

I'm not allowed hold ups for my suit stockings, so that I have to wear suspenders of some form.  so my trip had me wearing a deep suspender belt with matching panties and a black satin cami.  A bra might be a bit to much to explain to my client.  The other thing that I have to make sure is that my suit trousers are suitable for me wearing my chastity cage, not too tight but Mistress wants the possibility that the more observant to potentially spot my restriction and to have the potential humiliation - either real or imagined.

So after 2 nights away, and a successful set of meetings it was good to get home and back into my comfort zone, and it was good to be greeted by Mistress and told that I had been missed before being dispatched to get changed in to something more appropriate to show how much I had missed my Mistress.  Most of the evening was spent on my knees making up for my absence.

Archive - Punished for the lack of effort

Tue, 11 Jul 2017 

Well, I started the blog at a time that I thought would be appropriate for all of us, what I didn't factor in was issues in our vanilla lives which meant that we have both had to focus on that issue.  However as Mistress Alice pointed out I should have at least made an effort to say that we were busy and that this blog was not being abandoned. 

The result was that Sunday night I was required to present myself for an extra punishment both by Mistress and a little later from Master.  Monday morning found me in the car going to a client meeting with a very sore bottom, who would have thought that going to York would be so painful! 

Archive - Long Weekend - The Normal Routine

Wed, 21 Jun 2017 

It's been a bit of a long weekend and Mistress Alice is now back at work and I have been tasked to do a very quick update with a more detailed one to follow later this evening. 

We have a routine when it comes to most weekends and this weekend was no exception:  Thursday evening is review my punishment book and receive punishments as deemed appropriate.  sometimes Mistress will consider holding over a punishment until her Boyfriend visits, either for her to punish me or for me to humbly request that Master administers my correction.  Mistress Alice graciously decided to punish me for all of my short comings.  After punishments I am given direction on what is planned for the weekend and what will be required for me. 

In this case Mistress Alice's Boyfriend would be arriving on Friday Evening and staying until Monday Morning.  I would be required to be in Maid role for the majority of the time. 

Friday is a normal work day until 4pm, when I finish and go and change and ensure that everything is prepared for Mistress and Master - bedding changed, wine chilling and ensure that we are ready to prepare the evening meal.  I will also change into my working uniform prior to Mistress Alice returning at 5.30pm (ish).  Master normally arrives at around 7pm.  I will then be on call as Maid and submissive for the evening. 

Saturday will have me doing my house husband/ wife duties of making breakfast and tiding up.  I then go for the weekly grocery shop - not as a maid, but in male over clothes.  once back it is back into uniform and carry on.  Mistress and Master will normally go out on a Saturday for meal or a drink, I must help Mistress get ready - bath, dressed etc.  I am normally dismissed to get changed into one of my Chauffeur outfits as I will drive Mistress and Master to and from their chosen venue.  On their return I will then change back into a maids uniform.  more to follow.....

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As a matter of choice then it is Mistress that I prefer but I really do understand why we have the deferred punishments for delivery by Master John.  we are also lucky that Master John understand it and gets it.  Also he has listened to Madam on how to give the punishments.  One of Madam's previous Boyfriends just saw it as an opportunity to cause pain to me me and it was one of the reasons why she ditched him, while he played in the "Scene" as it were he just didn't get the dynamics between Submissive and Dominant.  Master John does get it and plays allow with it, that why Madam has been with him for so long and also in the vanilla setting I get on well with him.  but as a matter of choice I'd rather have my education at the hand of Mistress Alice.

Archive - Chastity

Wed, 14 Jun 2017 

for the majority of the time I am required to wear a chastity device or cage. Mistress Alice holds the view that by controlling my orgasms then she ensures that I am more submissive and compliant.

I have been using chastity devices for at least the last 13 years but over the last 5 years it has become a more permanent feature.  This has coinciding with her starting to see her current Boyfriend, who is very comfortable with our relationship and actively partakes in my domination.  

I started off with a CB2000 cage which was one of the early devices and this was a good learning cage.  Not the best for long term wear but not bad to start with.  The metal cage was the next one, and this is more of a play cage.  it is too heavy for regular wear but Mistress likes me to wear it when we do a BDSM session and she wishes to tease and punish me. 

The next was the CB6000 (normal size)  this wasn't a good one to get. The backing rings and the connectors were (and are) great but the polycarbon cage split one evening when we were coming back from a night out - bloody painful!  I needed several days before I could be put back into the Old CB2000.  having done some research I purchased a CB3000 cage and with a little work with a file managed to use the cage with the CB6000 backing ring.  this has created a very comfortable Chastity device that does allow for longer term wearing. 

The last one that I'll talk about is the current favourite of Mistress Alice, and that is the bottom Right of the photo.  this is a CB3000 copy from China which has the added feature of a set of inset pads that allow a TENs unit to be connected to it.  The TENs unit is not included but a cheap LLoyds Pharmacy unit is quite adequate for Mistresses plans.  This is the one that I've been wearing full time at the moment.  The others I'll cover in another post.

Archive - The Start of the blog

Wed, 14 Jun 2017 

Mistress Alice has toyed with the idea of having us create a blog, the aim is to discuss things and to use it as a tool to continue with my humiliation as her submissive cuckold. 

The plan is to work on developing this and see how things progress.  while I, submissive sissy billie, will be the main contributor to the site Mistress Alice has said that she may contribute depending on how she feels or if there is anything that she would like to discuss or express.  The thing that sparked the momentum to actually start this came from regularly reading Lady Alexa's blog, and her training of her husband in their FLR. 

We'll see how things go.  billie xxx