22 July 2018

Archive - What's in a Name? - Thoughts from Mistress Alice




Sun, 16 Jul 2017 

From Mistress Alice


Good Evening, billie is off playing with John at the moment - not in that way -  they are off playing a game of golf.  Yes my Boyfriend and Cuckolded Husband do get on and like each other in the vanilla world. 

There is a slight difference with that and we have had the question emailed to us so if there is one person asking then there is probably more.  We were asked how we balance and control our vanilla and the "kinky" & cuckold side. 

Well when we started this Female Lead Relationship so many years ago - back in 2002, we talked through what we both needed in our relationship as a couple and also as individuals and then then we looked at how realistic that could be achieved.  one of the things we realised was some aspects would impact on our families and also on our work life.  we didn't want to get either side mixed up. 

So we decided that my Hubbie would have 2 names.  His first name is actually Michael, most people know him as Mick, but I felt that was too masculine - in either form- so I wanted something less male, his middle name is William and a shortened form is Bill.  so by making it billie (we use Billie with ie as it has a more sissy connection rather than a more masculine Billy). 

This allows us to switch between vanilla life where Mick and Alice  interact with family, friends and work associates, and where Mistress Alice and submissive (sissy) billie play.  It also allows us to be comfortable with the company and roles we "play" at each moment in time. 

So this evening Mick and John have been for a late afternoon round of golf and probably a pint of beer (shandy for Mick as he is driving) and Alice has been doing a bit of cooking and internet viewing ready for when her boys get back.  Once they get back Mick will be sent to change and billie will be the maid for the evening and will serve dinner for her Mistress and Master.  It works and it makes sure that we all Know our places....... 

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