Merry Christmas and a tease for the New Year.

 From all at the Luff Household

A very short note and update on whats happening for us over the festive period.

We will be having John over for Christmas Eve and Christmas day this year and he will leave us on boxing day to go and spend time with his daughters.

on Boxing day Mick will be back in place  and we are planning a low key day at home and if the weather permits perhaps a good walk in the local woods to burn off the calories or to work up an appetite for leftovers.

Then on the 27th we are going up to Leicester to see the family for a few days, not as long as we have done in previous years but back home on the 30th and John will be back with us on New Year's eve.

We have a busy programme of events and quite a bit of it will be on the vanilla side but I'm sure there will be some bits of fun for us to report on in the New Year.  We already have a list of posts in the draft section ready to be worked on or finished so there should be lot of things appearing in the New Year both from myself and billie.

Just to give a bit of an update on an earlier post, Our Niece's boyfriend has sent a message to Mick that he has completed his Christmas task and it would appear that our Ellie will be getting some lovely retro Lingerie and stockings for her Christmas, which I'm absolutely delighted about.  So a well done to young David, that the first hurdle crossed, I look forward to seeing what happens next with the two of them.

With that I will leave you will a little tease as a Christmas Present for some of the things to look forward to in the New Year.

From Madam Alice and Sissy billie, have a Good Christmas and Best Wishes for the New Year, we will see you in 2023.

The current Chastity Cages

I've been having a few email conversations with Poppet SubSlut over a few topics of late and a point in one of the discussions was over chastity devices.  We are both caged for long periods, and it would be fair that we are both fans of wearing chastity, but for quite different reasons.  It is always interesting to know why different people are caged, because there are a whole range of reasons, emotions and feelings about them from a wearer and from their partners.  Rarely are all of the reasons the same across all of the parties in the conversation.

So I thought that I would do an update on what had been an older post on the old site and is now on this site as an archive article.

subhusbandsflr.blogspot.com/2018/archive-chastity

The archive post related to this collection of chastity cages

To add a few bits to that article, we did eventually progress back to a CB6000 and soon after purchased a CB6000s cage and that was quite good to wear long term, thankfully we didn't have anymore incidents of split cages.

Sir purchased an all metal CB6000s and while that was good for wearing it wasn't brilliant for long term wear. However I did find that by looking at the collection I could identify the good parts of each of the CB chastity cages and decided to pick the best bits and see if I could "create" a good working cage for long term wear.  The result was "Frankencage!"

 This item had the back ring and top pins from the metal CB6000s cage, the locking pin and spacer from the original CB6000 and the pink plastic cage from a copy CB6000s. It was a really good cage to wear long term and was my my main cage for a couple of years until I made the move to the newer lighter metal cages.

My Current cages are shown below and currently I am wearing a pink"cobra". This is a very comfortable cage and sized as small but we can easily go down a size to the Nano sized version and we probably will in the new year I think. 

The small "cobra" type chastity, my current chastity.
It is displayed in an organza sissy "chastity bag" 

 My current other chastitys are shown below.  I do wear these but either to get a respite change from my current cage or to allow a deep clean of the cage.  The other reason may be that Madam or Sir would want me in a different cage.

Top Left - Frankencage, as mentioned this was my main cage for several years, it is probably the first cage that I could really wear for long periods.  the one down side was that it could be difficult to clean while wearing it.

Top Centre - Metal cage with a short open cage. Back ring is hinged and once I added the rubber sleave to the hinge area it is really comfortable to wear and curves the clit down in a nice angle. I wore this for most of last year and this year. The spikes can be added as a punishment and they are bloody uncomfortable if any attempt of an erection happens. The back ring had a good shape and really works for my ball sac. One down side is that my foreskin can get stuck against one of the bars and having a pee can be a real drama as well as messy!! Overall a good comfortable cage and keeps everything quite snug.

Top Right - another comfortable cage but can be used for punishment play. The back ring is good with a good shape to it. The sleeve of the cage is tight and keep my clit very snug and I have less foreskin problems with this one. The metal sleeve allows Madam to stick small pads from a TENs unit onto it and it conducts the shock really well (too well) to my confined clit. We can also add the urethra tube to the cage if needed - I can wear that for a day but I bloody hate it so when threatened with that I make sure that I am on best behaviour!. 

 During the summer we all noticed that my clit was spending more time being smaller in my cages (mainly the centre cage) so we discussed about down sizing. Sir wanted to stay with metal as they have a more constraining appearance and they are a cage in the real sense of the word, while Madam wanted to go for resin/ 3d printed as she wanted me to have something secure but light for long term wear. So we had a balance of try the 3D printed Cobra, the cage isn't as small as we would have liked but we have proved that we have a comfortable workable cage and a couple of smaller metal cages.

 The 2 lower cages are definitely smaller, both can be worn with the urethra tube and the one on the right also has the spikes but I'm not sure that they will get used as they are just too angled in for sensible use. Observations when wearing these - The shaped back ring is better for me than the plain round one and while they hold me very snug we have found that the weight makes them hang forward quite a bit while effectively just containing the head of my clit.

We had a bit of an accident when I was being fucked by Madam when wearing the Lower Left small cage. My caged clit was bouncing about alot and as I was getting turned on and I got "firm" and my clit pushed the cage forward and down and my semi erect clit popped out from the back ring while keeping my balls trapped between cage and back ring! Really not a comfortable experience and trying to tell Madam to stop while in full flow of thrusts was an effort! 

We notice the same potential problem with the lower right cage. We chatted with another sissy that we follow on twitter about using small cages and an elastic waist strap, which seems to be popular at the moment. Having ordered one the result is really quite good as the strap helps to keep the back ring close to the body and certainly helps to reduce the bounce issue. While it works well with the resin/ 3D cage it is really essential for the small metal cages. My only other observation with the smaller cages is that I have noticed with them is that the skin that would have covered the shaft of my small clit, while it initially bunches up when I push the cage on and lock the cage in place, with time the skin starts to creep forward and over the sides of the cage, almost like a second foreskin. 

With the chastity aspects, here are my issues. 

• I have quite a big ball sac, so we need to use a 50-52mm back ring, ideally shaped. We tried dropping down a size and it was almost like I was being castrated. I can endure pain but the colour that my bollocks were going was not good - also going down a size acted more like a cock ring to sustain an erection rather than preventing one! So large back rings are the thing for me. (No I don't want to be castrated, or any such thing, That would probably mean that my sex drive and a focal point for the turn of humiliation would be gone/ diminished and Madam does not want me castrated either, thank you very much!). 
• Despite having a small clit (and it is smaller than what it originally was) I can still get erections, despite the lack of use. I get nightly "piss erections" which wake me up and have my cage straining, so I have to go wee so that things calm down. These aren't regular they just happen every so often.
• When going to bed at night I remove the elastic support strap as that will allow for some movement of my ball sac skin and allows it to move without being pinched by the back ring being too tight to my body. 
• When Madam teases me I will become firm in the cage (not hard but firm). 
• When Sir and Madam verbally emasculate me, guess what...firm to semi hard (and I can start to leak just from that at times...) 
• When being fucked by Madam or Sir, I will start to get hard in my cage. Being caged has probably allowed me to become more sexually aroused than when I was unfettered.  Perhaps when I was uncaged I was too focused on trying to achieve or deliver "the goods" and that was a physiological pressure, where as being caged I don't have that pressure. 

The truth is that since being caged I have a greater sex life than I did before, it is just focused completely differently and more appropriate for a submissive mindset that I have. 

If Madam Alice said tomorrow I didn't need to wear the cage, I would still put on and wear it to show my commitment and focus to her, I'm convinced that without it I would start to crave being caged.

So there you go, if we decide to go down to the Nano sized cage in the new year I'll let you all know.

Take care

billie.

Some earlier posts and our thoughts on Chastity:

Feb 2020 - some practical pointers for chastity

Jul 2022 - chastity why do that to yourself

Friday Night Driving and Sunday Photos

In the grand scheme of things this weekend has been a "quiet" one.  Now before you stop reading, just remember that is in relation to some of the weekends that we have had, so please bear with us.....

Now that we are into December it is the start of the "festive season" in terms of parties etc, and having endured 2 years of being arsed about with lock downs and lacking a social life, the works party is back.

Friday night was Madam's works Christmas function, the company has a venue booked for a meal and some music and drinks, its with Partners so as Madam and Sir are the couple that are seen locally so they were heading out for the "Do".  I would be tasked with carrying out Driving Duties.

Madam was home at 4pm on Friday so that she could get ready  as the function started at 7pm and we had at least a 30 minute drive to the venue.

So I knew what she planned to wear so it was pressed and laid out/ hung up. I was given free rein to chose appropriate underwear for her, but she planned to put on her stilettos with the 1" platforms that gave a heel height of 5".

So in my role as Ms Watson, House Keeper for Madam, I laid everything out and selected a Black Balcony Bra, a black deep 6 strap suspender belt and a pair of satin fronted full briefs with a lace back (they show of Madam's bum very nicely!) and then to complete the set a pair of black cuban point fully fashioned stockings - well she is going "Out Out", so that should have the right effect on Sir.

When Madam got home, I welcomed her and then ushered her up to the bath that was waiting, gathered up her discarded work clothes and then down to the kitchen to return back to Madam with a Glass of Wine to have while she soaked.

while I pottered around downstairs I got a message from Sir that he would be later than he hoped, he was aiming for 5.45pm but I suspected that the traffic would probably delay him, so this evening was going to be a case of quick turn around.  I texted back to him to ask if he wanted a bath when he arrived or would he use the shower? (so long as I got a call when he was on route I could get the bath ready for him), the response was that he'd go for the shower. Madam was informed of Sir's delay and I suggested that once Sir arrived that I would lay out his clothes but unpack his back once I had dropped the pair of them off at the venue.

My job for the evening was to be Driver cum Chauffeur, I would drive Sir's Car with Sir and Madam in the back to the venue and drop them off, come home, do a few jobs, have something to eat and then wait for their call to come and collect.  this would mean that both of them could have a drink and unwind with out worrying about driving or trying to get a taxi/ Uber.

As suspected Sir was closer to 6pm than the expected time and he got the ushering treatment up to the bedroom to get changed and showered.  I took his suit cover and checked that everything was neat and tidy (I recognised that I had ironed them earlier in the week for him) and then picked up the car keys.

So with Sir in the shower, Madam busy applying her "war paint" as she calls it, I went to get changed for my driving duties.

For evenings like this where Madam wants an "official driver" the outfit is blouse (white or blue), dark blue pencil skirt, black or barely Black stockings/ tights, heels and my dark blue blazer.  It is pretty much one of my office outfits with the blazer added.  The change wasn't too difficult or time consuming, but I put on my grey wig that I've recently got and have started wearing quite a bit, I spent a bit of time putting in some hair clips and a hair band so that it would stay in place when I drove. Once I was ready I went outside and turned Sir's car around and parked in front of the front door ready for the couple to come down.

"Evening Sir, Madam, I'll be your Driver for this evening."

The two were ready and Madam looked fantastic and I gave a quick check of her to make sure her seams were straight and I then went out and opened the rear door for Madam and once in I went to the other side to let Sir in. Once everyone was in and settled we headed off.  I knew where the venue was but knew that the trip could be tricky if the traffic was still busy, but as it turned out it wasn't too bad with us arriving just a few minutes after 7pm.  I pulled up at the front of the venue and Sir and Madam let themselves out - it probably wouldn't be seemly to for me to get out in my skirt and heels to open the doors, it might cause the wrong type of questions at Madam's work!

I returned home and had some food and waited for the Whatsapp message to tell me to come and collect them.  It was a phone call from Sir at 11.30pm asking me to head over and pick them up.  So at about midnight I collected 2 rather merry party goers, Madam was slightly more merry than Sir!  They seemed to have had a good night and chatted with me all the way back to the house.  As we got back I asked if they wanted anything to eat or drink and both declined - not even a night cap! None! they were off to bed and I was dismissed for the night. 

Saturday was a slow day as I had 2 slightly hung over people to deal with for the morning.  So after a lay-in to 9am, a good solid breakfast was provided with plenty of coffee and orange juice.  The living dead started to come to life about 1pm!

The rest of the day was a very relaxed easy sort of day, I was told that I could go and change into something less formal or get actually go and be Mick if I wanted.  I went took off the waist clincher and changed into a bra and suspender belt combo and a knee length skirt and added a polo shirt top with it, so very much a relaxed chilling out outfit for a chilling out afternoon. The evening was just as relaxed as the three of us chatted, watched some TV and took turns to make tea/ coffee or to get the wine (later in the evening).

Sunday would be a different day as well, Madam stated on Saturday night we would all have a lie in, (unfortunately) I would be in my room and not spending the night with Sir and Madam. There would be no early morning call from the maid - as Madam put it she was giving the maid the day off. So we would all have a Brunch rather than a breakfast at about 10am.

Over breakfast myself and Madam had a chat about a number of things and one of the things that came up was future blog posts and things we wanted to do, that we had done and some topics to explore.

The discussion of photos and images was discussed and did we want to publish some?  The view was that for the majority of the photos that we take and have taken we would not publish, for a number of reasons privacy would be the number one reason, but we decided that we could and should do something.

A corner of the utility room has been used before as a photo area and was used for the photos in our recent blog post.  we all agreed that it ticked the boxes and allowed for an element of discretion but also for us to provide some personal content.

Now a couple of boundaries were checked - Sir did not want to have any photos of him published, The fact that he appears in quite a lot of photos with Madam for our personal enjoyment is another matter.  Madam wants to be very discrete and may appear in the occasional image but it would need very careful work to ensure that it was discrete.  As Madam puts it there are a few people at work that would have a field day if they knew what we were upto and as she put it a couple of the senior management that would have a heart attack!

As for me, some of the ones that we have done in the past have been fine and as with Madam, discretion is the watch word.

The decision was that we would look to take the occasional photo for the blog post, principally of me but possibly with Madam or Madam on her own, with the idea that it would add perhaps a little bit of context and make it interesting with the other images that we add into the posts.

With that all agreed and discussed we had a chat about what we wanted to do and what blog posts would need something adding to them. The view was that we could start with this post by adding some images of my outfit from Friday night and get things going from there, it was decided that Sunday afternoon would be a bit of a photo shoot.

So.......Myself and Sir went to set up the corner of the utility room, the first thing was to get the camera tripod and also the Camera. We have 2 cameras, a small happy snapper that does some pretty good photos and we tend to carry when out for day trips as it is a handy size and then there is my bridge camera that I use for work when doing site inspections, its very good but a bit big for what we had planned.

The first couple of photos were very vanilla and were more to make sure the tripod was in the right place, we were standing in the right place, where was the light etc, generally a lot of Faffing about. We also realised that the mobile phones we had have a pretty good camera for the the level of light available.  While the ceiling light was quite poor the flash from the small Camera was OK, we found that the flash on the phone and the bridge camera were far better.

Once we were happy I was dispatched off to get changed into what I had worn on Friday night or as close to it as I could. Having come back dressed I was told to take position and the first couple of photos were taken with Sir working the camera and Madam directing how I should stand and position myself.

Everything was going well with lots of direction from Madam...

"Stand side on"

"put your foot forward, shoulders back...." etc, she can be rather demanding can my Mistress Wife, it's in her nature you know!

We got into a rhythm and we started to get some good poses and Sir kept taking the photos, we were really chuffed with the way things were going until we checked some of the photos and realised that the camera mount on the tripod had been slowly slipping with each photo.

The result was that what we thought was going to be a good photo set ended up with part of my head being progressively cut off!

A photo that Madam liked where I was putting my hair back in place and the camera slipped down!
Madam was not impressed with Sir at the time!

The other problem that this slipping had caused was that the cameras were always adjusting their focus and we had quite a few blurred images with part of my head missing!

However all was not a complete loss we managed to find the part of the tripod and mounting bracket that was the problem and with the addition of some bits of plastic we managed to add in an improvised clamp and the mount was held steady.

so it was a case of start again....

An official/ formal Driver photo with the jacket done up. 

And now with the Jacket open showing off a bit more.

 The next part that Madam suggested was a few photos with the blazer removed and some posed photos of Mick's secretary.  Madam wanted a few that were a little different rather than just standing there for official portraits, so for the next 30 minutes we had a laugh as I was directed by both John and Alice to stand this way, stand that way, play with your hair, bend over, flash your stocking tops and on and on.

I think we consumed a bottle of white wine between us as we all tried to pull some of these images together.  I'm certainly not going to win prizes as a model and John needs to do a bit more work if he plans to enter any photographic competitions. But we had fun and we all ended up laughing and joking.  We did mange to get a few photos that were worth posting.

So for those readers that are new to the blog may I introduce Miss billie Watson, Mick's secretary and office help.

Miss billie Watson, with bra in clear view!

Fiddling with her hair, you can barely tell I'm wearing a chastity cage! 

"Crouch down, lets see how that looks?" - it doesn't look too bad as a pose. what do you think?

"Turn round and lean on the wall, cross your legs, show off your legs and bum!"
Madam particularly likes this one, I should have perhaps put some seamed stockings on for it?

 As Sunday afternoons go, this was a bit different and quite good fun for all three of us, it is clear that we all need to get a bit better at these things.  We all agree that the tripod needs to have a bit of repair work carried out on it and a little bit of practice with the different cameras and photos will let us know what works best for each type of photo.

What do you think?  Do we introduce you to the Maids and Housekeeper?  Constructive feedback is very welcome.

Overall a relaxed weekend with a bit of fun on Sunday afternoon!

billie xxx
 

  

Naughty Nora's Blog - Go and follow it!

 When we started to blog there were a number of people that inspired us, helped us, advised us and generally we really very good to us.

It can be hard to get started and to be motivated.

In some cases other bloggers will give you points tips and advice.  Some will leave comments to your posts which helps to motivate and some will reach out when you go quiet just to check that you are OK.

Someone that fits a number of those areas is Naughty Nora, she has a great blog and when we lost the old blog page we lost a lot of the contacts here on Blogger and also on Wordpress where our very original site was.  Thankfully I managed to get back into some old accounts and find some of the old links and it was fantastic to find that Nora is still blogging. 

This is the link to her blog:

https://ourmarriageanddomesticdiscipline.wordpress.com/

Please go and have a look at what she is upto and have a read through some of the archive there is some really good stuff in there.  I've also added her page to our blog list on the side so new posts should appear there.

Regards

billie

It's Review Night For billie

 From Madam Alice:

Good Evening everyone I hope that you are all well.  It is Thursday night and that means that at 8pm billie will present himself at my study for his weekly review. We decided that we would do the review in the study as normal but the punishments would be delivered in the "photo area" that billie has set up the utility room and we would take a couple of snaps for you to see billie and her uniform.

Over the last 12 months we have formalised the different uniforms and outfits that I want billie to wear.  previously I would decide what I wanted billie to wear for the review and it was often in one of his maids uniforms or a fancy dress school girl outfit - tartan miniskirt, stockings etc.  I decided that this wasn't really appropriate and that I should formalise it to billie being in the School Girl uniform.  

On one of the days that I was travelling to work, having been held up by traffic I notice a number of kids going to school and I realised that their uniforms were more about knee length skirts and dark/ opaque tights or socks and not a tartan skirt to be seen.  So I decided that we would ensure that billie would have an proper school uniform for doing his review and for doing his punishments, and particularly when he is required to write lines.

On one Saturday we went shopping for a proper school uniform, so in August last year we mixed with other parents and grandparents and went and purchased a grey pleated knee length skirt, A plain white shirt.  we spotted an appropriate tie in a charity shop and we found a shop that sold Grey opaque stockings.  Marks and sparks were visited for a plain white bra and I had decided that I ordered on the internet a plain white 6 strap suspender belt for him.

As for knickers we had a few pairs of white knickers that needed a job as billie the little tramp has a liking for black underwear (so do i for that matter), but I wanted white for this outfit (it shows off a spanked bottom far better in my opinion.)  So we now have a uniform.

billie in school uniform

For those that aren't aware billie is required to keep a record of any tasks or items that he feels went wrong or where he did not achieved an appropriate standard.  billie may also put forward any points that he thinks he did particularly well.

Once he has finished with his points, as he stands infront of my desk I will check his points against what I have recorded in my book.  Woe betide it that I have a point in my book that does not match the points that billie should have picked up.

To be honest we have been doing this long enough that billie normally has all of my points and some others that I wouldn't have spotted when I wasn't present.

Once all of the points are discuss then I will allocate a punishment or a in the case of a positive point I may allocate a treat (and they do happen occasionally).

The non physical punishments  can be:

• Writing Lines
• Corner time
• restriction of privileges - such as no watching of myself and John, limitations on what clothing can be worn etc.
• A verbal telling off
• A humiliating task

The physical punishments can be:

• Spanking by Hand (by myself)
• Spanking by Hand (by John)
• Spanking by old table tennis bat (we rarely use this now)
• Ruler across the palm of the hand
• Ruler across the bottom
• Paddle across the bottom
• Riding Crop across the bottom
• Belt across the bottom (Note - The belt belongs to John and it is always referred to as "Sir's Belt" and hangs in my wardrobe in the bedroom - If I decide to use it I will tell billie to go and fetch "Sirs Belt")
• I also have a old leather tawse but I rarely use that as it is a vicious item and it is easy to get carried away and do some serious marks with it!

18" Old Fashioned School Ruler

my current selection of punishment riding crops, they are ones that I have formerly used when horse riding

Leather paddle

Having carried out the review I awarded billie with 10 strokes with the ruler on his bum and 6 with the paddle. I also used this opportunity to take some posed photos at different stages of the punishment, here  is a few for your review.

I started by having billie bend over, lift his skirt and show his satin knickers. I then told him to remove these and replace them with his sheer white knickers

The sheer white knickers are really good for billie to wear as once a punishment is done , he can pull his knickers up but his punishment marks are still on full display. As you can see they are very sheer.

The first punishment will be 10 strokes with the wooden ruler.  I had billie place a chair to lean over for support and then pull his knickers down to his knees.  You can see the results in the photo below and also his plugged hole and his chastity cage just on view.

Next was 6 strokes with the paddle, I have to confess I didn't lay them on as hard as I did for billie's punishment night a few weeks ago!

And then finally I told billie to stand up and turn round and lift his skirt to display his chaste little clit, we are currently using a small "Cobra" chastity and also an waist strap added to the back ring. He is taking a rest from the metal cages at the moment.

We've found a grey wig that seems to suit billie quite well, it matches his normal hair and it looks rather nice with it hooked behind his ears, billie has added a hair band.  we have also taken the feed back that was provided by Poppet Sub Slut about coordinating accessories with the outfits so billie found some grey, red and black face masks with some added sparkles that seem to work (the masks are purely to keep our anonymity, a lesson learned from the previous blog unfortunately).

You have now had an insight into a Review night with the bonus of a few photos of my darling husband.  We hope you like them. Let us know what you think?

A Vanilla Weekend with lingerie advice and a very pleasant surprise.

 Last weekend Madam and I were invited to a christening of a Grand Child of a long term friend, Madam knew her when she was growing up and I got to know her and her husband when I started courting Madam.  The invite arrived a about 6 weeks ago and originally we only planned to go up on the day, stay overnight in Leicester and then back the following day.  

However the offer of the use of a Chalet/log cabin near to the friends place and an invitation to go for dinner on the evening prior to the event made Madam re-think the plan.  So with Madam having a few days of holidays to take from work it was decided that we would go up on the Thursday night, spend Friday catching up with old friends, the event on the Saturday and then use Sunday catching up with Madam's family and have the Monday with Madam's mother. So basically we go up, see everyone, get it all done and dusted and we are all good for the next 6 months......It didn't quite go that way.....

We travelled up Thursday evening and got to the Chalet, very nice, not far from our friends at Ashby De La Zouch (Yes it is in Leicestershire, not in France) got settled in. As I was on punishment I had brought the camping mattress and laid it out in the living room area, while Madam would have the bedroom to herself. There was a pub near by, so we went down there to have a drink, well Madam had a drink, I had soda water as Madam had banned me from any alcohol, so I would be the designated driver for the weekend.  The pub was reasonably busy and it was quite nice to hear local voices again.  Madam had a couple of Gins and then we headed back for the night. 

I thought that I may have been required to help Madam to get off to sleep with some gentle oral on her, but once she was ready for bed I was banished to the living room  with instructions for Coffee at 7.30am.  Madam reminded me that I was on punishment and as such I would not be needed until the morning.  As I bedded down on my mattress I could hear Madam pleasing herself with one of her toys, so it was a slightly frustrating start to my nights sleep.

Friday was not a bad day, cool and overcast  but dry so we took the opportunity to go for a walk in the morning before the potential showers arrived.  While we were out Madam received a call from our eldest niece, Ellie, she wanted to know when we were coming up.  So Madam told her that we were already up and staying near Ashby and that we were going out tonight with our friends.  Our Niece asked if we would like to meet up for lunch with her and her Boyfriend, her treat.

Now, alarm bells should have gone off at this point. We are very fond of our two nieces, we brought them up for about 4-5 years when they were youngsters, so we do look at them as our kids (sort off) and when they were teenagers and at college/ uni they will occasionally come to us when their Mum and Dad have said no to them and play us off against each other.  We've not had this for a number of years and my 6th sense felt that there was something afoot here.  I wasn't far off the mark....

Eldest niece is a lovely young woman, good looking and with an attitude and temperament that definitely reminds me of my Madam.  She dresses in a way that just says Confidence and Femininity but with subtle authority .  I would say that her early Goth phase at Uni has developed and matured with her clothing style.  I've seen the way she has developed over the years and I'd say that she is definitely a dominant personality.  The question that I occasionally ask myself is has this happened due to Nature or Nurture?  Did spending time being brought up by Alice rub off on her?  Don't know, but there is a lot of similarities.

As I couldn't drink we suggested to meet at a pub for lunch near to where they lived.  Now I was curious that both of them had a working day off, something was definitely going on.

The boyfriend, David, is a nice lad, they have been together for quite a few years, having met at University.  he must have been keen on our niece having been with her for a few years when she was down south and he move up to Leicester not long after she moved into her house. He's about the same height as her and a bit on the lean side (says the short stocky submissive!) and a bit quiet but the one thing that is with him is he is definitely the subordinate in the relationship with our niece!

We arrived at the Pub, part of a national chain, so you know what you are getting and the pair were there already, we went across to say hello and both got a fairly warm and tight hug from Eldest Niece. My suspicious mind always thinks that she gives a tight hug just to check to feel what I might be wearing, We have mentioned before that both myself and Alice believe that she either knows or suspects that there is something "different" with our marriage and the way we live. She is a smart lass and spots things that others would miss.  David ordered drinks for us (a white wine for Alice and a soda water for me) and we chatted while we looked over the menus.

The conversation was all very light and very much to catch up.  Ellie was doing well at her work and David had just moved jobs, same company but a change of location and a promotion.  Overall this couple were doing OK in the grand scheme of things.  The food arrived and we continued to chat.

When we finished the food Alice suggested that we move to some of the more comfortable chairs and get another round of drinks, to which I said I would get.  As I stood at the bar, the boyfriend appeared next to me, looking a bit sheepish, I assumed that he was going to help carry the drinks, well I assumed wrong....

"Mr Luff, would you mind if we had a chat?  I could do with some advice?" Oh fuck here it comes....

"Whats up lad? and it's Mick, Mr Luff is a bit too formal or work related for me".  Spending most of my time as billie or Ms Watson tends to make me a little bit uncomfortable being called Mr Luff.  I dispatched him off with the drinks for the girls and he came back and we stood off from the bar.

He started to faff about and clearly nerves were getting the better of the poor sod.  I wondered what was the problem? I told him to just settle down and get to the point.

"Alright,"a bit of a pause as he seemed to build some courage," Ellie says you buy most of Auntie Alice's underwear...her lingerie." I almost choked on the swig of water I had just taken!

Where the f**k had that come from? "She does does she?and what has this to do with you?"

"Sorry, sorry....I need some advice, please....Ellie wants some lingerie for Christmas....not the type that you get from M&S, She wants some items like what you get for Aunt Alice.." and then he blurted out "and I have to go and buy them in person, not ordered over the internet!"

"Mick, where do I go to get what she wants...?"

I'd gathered my composure and had stopped coughing. The first thing was to just settle him down before that he blurts out something that he shouldn't.

"Ok Sunshine, what is Ellie after?"  

Now I'm assuming that during the summer of 2020 when Ellie stayed with us while waiting for her house purchase to be completed that she had spotted the quantity of stockings and retro underwear that was being washed and dried.  As for why she thought I purchased them wasn't clear until I spoke with Alice on the trip back - Ellie had asked Alice where she shopped for her Lingerie and stockings and Alice told her what she knew but to ask me as I generally purchased most of her Lingerie.

So we had a bit of a chat and it was clear that she was after some of the retro lingerie and some Fully fashioned or reinforced heel and toe stockings. I also got the impression she was looking for either a basque or corselette, his descriptions were a bit of a mixed bag.  He obviously knew about companies such as "What Katie Did" (link) but they were down in London and he wanted something nearer. At that point I thought he was going to ask me to get them for him, however he seemed quite determined to do this himself.

"Ellie, has given me this as a task, and I'm going to do it, I've just never bought underwear for her or anyone before..." when I heard him say that, the billie part of my brain almost removed the name "Ellie" with the word "Mistress", it was said in that type of way. 

So I passed on some Uncle advice.  Don't worry and to calm down. he would need to take a trip to Nottingham and Derby as there were two companies up there that would help him, he would need to do a bit of work and ordering via the internet but certainly one of them would allow him to go and pick the items up, possibly both would.  It is just the nature of the companies, they manufacture on site and sell via the web. (The women at Revival are brilliant and very good to deal with - David would be in good hands with them!)

But I warned him to do his homework first - 

• stick to basic colours- whites and blacks, don't get distracted by reds unless Ellie tells him directly that she wants red underwear.
• check her knicker drawer for the right sizes and check a few of them just to confirm the sizes.
• check her bra sizes
• Understand what size she is in stockings, and does she already wear stockings? and if so how high up her thigh does she like the top of her stockings. (as it transpires she wears stockings the whole time, definitely takes after her Aunt (and uncle!).
• once armed with the information then email the companies and talk through what you are after - if you are after girdles or the corselette they may suggest a size larger/ longer in the stockings as the garter straps are shorter.

He soaked in the information and if he had had a note book he would have been scribbling the info down like a man possessed.  I got out my phone and pinged up the websites for  Revival lingerie (Link) in Nottingham and Cosmic Girl (Link) in Derby and emailed them to him. I advised him to get the stockings from Cosmic Girl and the Lingerie from Revival.  (unless Ellie wanted a Teddie, in which case Cosmic Girl should be the first shout - Madam has one of theirs and loves it!).

Tiffany Teddy Playsuit from Cosmic Girl - highly recommended by Madam!

Corselette from Revival Lingerie - highly recommended by billie

Revival Lingerie Bosselli Stretch satin full brief - recommended by both of us!

So having armed him with 2 good suppliers of suitable undergarments in a reasonably local (ish) distance and a guide to keep him out of the poo in terms of ordering the wrong sizes I thought that was us all sorted.

"There is another thing I'd like to ask...." 

Oh God where is this going now?

"what is it?" I asked guardedly.

"Could you ask Alice to come over here as the question is really for both of you, without Ellie if possible?"

I gave the lad a bit of a look, perhaps a paddington bear type of look  of "what are you upto?"

I nipped over to the table and asked Alice to join us, while reassuring Ellie that we would be back in a minute.  We both wandered over and when we got back to the Lad, he looked a little sheepish, but what he said next had us rocking on our heels.  

"Aunt Alice, Unc...Mick, Can I have your permission to marry Ellie? She's my world and I love her so very much!"

a few minutes ago this was a lad that was almost crapping himself to go an purchase some fancy underwear for his Girlfriend and then bold as brass comes out with that!

Alice was quicker off the mark than I was, "David, that's more of the questions that you should be asking my Sister and her Husband, not us, it's normally the parents or the father, to be more precise, that you ask."

"I know Aunt Alice but Ellie actually views you two as her parents.  You are the ones that she goes to for advice and she knows that you have always looked after her, so I felt it would be wrong not to ask your permission"

Ladies and Gentlemen, I had just watched and listened to a young man melt my wife's heart and she started to cry.  We both said "yes", Alice gave him a bloody big hug and I shook his hand.  

we were not expecting what happened next.  David left us, walked over to Ellie and went on his knees and proposed to her, there and then. (Please note he didn't get down on one knee, he went down on both...just saying).  He had the engagement ring in his pocket. 

To the few folk in the pub that noticed it looked like a man getting on his knee to propose, perhaps I was looking too deep, I saw a young man willingly submitting to a Young Woman that has the air of a Dominant and asking to commit himself to her.  If they are not already a FLR, I am very sure that it will develop into one.

David offered the ring and she accepted it and leaned forward and kissed him.  It looks like we came up for a Christening and we now had a wedding!

We both joined Ellie and David at the table and Alice was drying her eyes and then went into tears again when she hugged Ellie.   We chatted and offered our very best to the engaged couple, we had another drink and then went our separate ways, us back to Ashby to get ready for the evening and them back to their house.

Well as an afternoon, neither of us was expecting any of that.  As we drove back I joked to Alice that she would need a suitable hat for the wedding as it appears that she would be the viewed by the Couple as the "Alternative Mother of the Bride", to which she gave a laugh but countered with that it won't be pinks and "bloody peach", something Dark and Vampy! Ellie would probably approve!

I suspect this style of outfit would be to Madam's liking for the day

"And you billie, will probably get the task of purchasing some suitable wedding Lingerie for your niece!"

Overall this made our weekend, meeting friends and the family was very nice, but that afternoon's event with Ellie and David just topped it, particularly seeing how Alice reacted, she could not have been more pleased (or emotional).

Afternote - On the way back home on Monday evening Alice told me about what she had been chatting about with Ellie while I was at the bar with David.  It would seem that Ellie has been regularly giving young david "tasks" of a specific or intimate nature, to see how he reacts or to push his "boundaries".  Alice hinted that they talked about this in a bit more detail over the weekend, but she wasn't going to go into details with me - I didn't need to know, but I get the impressions that my Mistress may becoming a very subtle mentor to our young Ellie.

I wonder if david knows what potentially is in store for him? If I'm right he is going to love it!

 

 

New links to Saragirl's Sissy Confessions

 For many of us in the FLR/ Sissy/ cuckold world there was a blogger that we would all wait with baited breath for new posts and that was Sara of Saragirl's Sissy Confessions.

While she posted lots of images with short story lines the ones that related to Her and her wife Emily were very much the ones that myself and Madam would love to read.  her whole website was just simply brilliant, unfortunately it was taken down by the powers that be and disappeared with no warning.

It left a lot of us regular readers all very worried about Sara.  People do care about each other in the blogging world, which is nice as we've been there.  

Thankfully Sara is OK and still blogging but via her Tumblr and Bdsmlr blog sites.  these are the links and I'll also post them on the side bar.  If you followed her on blogger go and catch her on the other sites.  If you haven't seen her original site then you missed a real treat but please go and follow her on either or both of her current sites, I promise you will love it and not be disappointed.

Saragirl's Sissy Confessions on Bdsmlr

Saragirl's Sissy Confessions on Tumblr

billie xxx

Punishment served & now back to normal

 I completed my period of punishment on Friday, having been informed by Madam when I brought her Breakfast she informed me that my last punishment would be my Afternoon Corner session, which would take place in her study as she would be working from home that day.

if you missed the details of my punishments then look back at this post - update-on-punishments

So having had my last corner time at 3pm, I finished at 3.30pm.  Madam was working and informed me that my 30 minutes were complete - to be honest my Calves and knees were telling me that as well, old age is definitely letting me know that my knees are not what they used to be!

I presented my self in front of Madam's desk and thanked her for correcting me. The smile that I got from her was worth it (yes I know its a small thing... but they could a lot!).  She told me to go and get changed into my short maids uniform and get ready for the evening and for Sir's arrival at 6 pm.

So it was back to normal, and it was good to be back into "nice" Lingerie and stockings rather than the plain functional underwear and tights that went with my Domestic Uniform. (Madam knows how to use my stocking fetish against me!).  It was really good to be back into my normal role as the submissive cuckold rather than being banished to the utility room, and being back and included into things.

November has been a difficult month even without the punishments being added to it. I've been told by Madam not to write about it as she is part way through a blog post that deals with that, so please bear with us as I think Madam aims to finish that and publish it early next week.

This morning saw Madam and Sir up and about early as they are going out for the day, I've been told not to prepare an evening meal as they will be back late and will have eaten while out.  I was told to get on with my usual tasks and to do some work on the Blog site, some posts on the blog and also on the social media side as well, just to keep that updated.  Madam has told me that I should spend the day as Mrs Watson her housekeeper.  which is very kind of Madam as this persona that Madam has created for me is one of my favourites with the requirements for Satin Blouses and skirts and retro foundation wear and stockings. (if you are interested and I guess that you are, I'm currently wearing a waist cincher from Revival Lingerie (Link), a longline bra, and a very nice pair of M&S knickers (Link) and a set of lace top black stockings)

I waved them off at just after 9am, and I have no idea where Sir is planning on taking Madam, but it may well be to do a bit of Christmas shopping and perhaps go and see a show, I'm sure I'll find out once they get back later.

With them gone, I've spent the morning catching up with some jobs in the office and also to put my room back together as I had to sleep on the floor in the utility room on the camping mattress that we have, so I went and got my Mattress back into the room and onto the bed and remade the bed.

One of the reasons for my punishment was that I had forgotten to send some photos of an outfit that Sir had made  for me to Poppet SubSlut - the link to her web page is in the side bar (go and follow her, she is an amazing person (a real sissy Princess 😉 to me) and has a great blog). So to remedy the problem I did a very quick photo session for her and sent them to her with a very grovelling apology.  While she gratefully received the photos and the apology she did provide some very valid critical feed back on the photos, mainly to do with the back drop, some of the small details of the photos and points that would help to improve the photos.

So I've spent some time today to get things adjusted, and amended and set up.  I'll run them past Madam and Sir tomorrow and see if they are happy and then, if they are content with my efforts, we can look at perhaps taking some photos for the wider blog audience and see what the reader's feedback will be.

That will do for the moment as I have another post to work on this evening and hope to get it completed and posted this weekend for you all - no promises (I'm not going there again!).