I haven't posted for the last 2 weeks as Madam felt that I should take a short break from the Social Media thing after my rant about Pintrest and other stuff, and that was a sensible thing to do.
We've been busy over the last couple of weeks with just doing our thing, I've even managed to have a game of golf with John (Mick and John are both equally dreadful at golf but we do enjoy the effort), I think that we managed to get the last good day of the weather.
so what is the jist of this post, well I 've had several emails and messages asking how I'm finding my enforced chastity during Loctober…….. and they kind of go like this....
"Eerrr…..???? I'm not doing loctober."
"Yes you are! your in chastity! your Mistress has put you in chastity because you as a submissive cuckold, yadda yadda yadda...."
"I'm not doing Loctober, Madam put me in Chastity back in April."
"Yes, but it is Loctober.."
"whoa there sunshine! October is just another frustrating month that I have to pass through on the way to either a release in late November or at Christmas"
"Isn't your Mistress going to release you at the end of the month?"
"Nope"
and with that I either get a "Oh, that's a bit of a sod" (no it isn't) or what have you done to upset her - nothing, have you read my profile or my blog....queue shameless plug for this blog....
and so it is that I explain that my chastity is an important part of our relationship and an important part of allowing me to focus on what pleases Madam, it's grown to be more than just a once a year event and it isn't anything bad, if anything it has improved a lot of things for me and Madam.
If you are locked for the month - enjoy the frustrations and sensations and if you are locked up normally... well just keep doing what you do or have to do.
Hi Billie - i am intrigued as to when this whole 'Locktober' thing became a thing? For me, and i think for you, i am locked except for times when my Owner wants me unlocked, it's quite simple.
ReplyDeletei am really interested to hear what new device you might be getting. Do keep us posted. Researching new and ever smaller chastity devices is one of my pastimes. i sometimes think subconsciously i am looking for the 'make it invisible' device. i stumbled across one on the web the other day that was a teeny, tiny, almost flat 3-D printed device that definitely looked interesting. Just need to find somewhere that does it in metal.
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I've been aware of the Lockober thing for at least 3 years and it has always made me chuckle, as I've been pretty much locked over and beyond that period anyway, but that has been due to Madam's wishes.
DeleteIt's almost as if some one has seen the success of events such as Movember and tried to replicate it. either way I'm locked because it is good for our relationship and not just for the month.
As for the new device, well I'll have to wait and see with an element of trepidation, as Madam was looking for a device to use as a temporary/ short term punishment cage - a bit smaller, more restrictive and we've discussed the addition of the urethral tube to be added. there is an element of anxiety and also I want to try it, I want to wear the added restrictions and see what happens. I know one thing it will be metal and small.
Billie xxx