Punishments and Corner time

 This month has been rather busy with work, added to this has been the muggy weather so things have been rather relaxed at home in general terms.

That said we are still trying to keep to the normal routine.  Added to which Madam has quite rightly been keeping an eye on me to make sure that work isn't getting on top of me, which unfortunately is has been regularly.  when she spots it she has reined me in and a couple of time this month she has had to take me to task about.

One of the occasions was early in the month where I wasn't concentrating and I broke a glass.  while it was clumsy and petty it was because I was trying to do too many things at once as well as having my mind distracted about work tasks.

well the result was a punishment from Madam in the form of a spanking and then being sent to the Utility room for 20 minutes of corner time.

 

At the end of my corner time I was told to present myself in front of Madam's Desk and received a verbal dressing down for my lack of ability to shut off and step away from my work.  

While this may all seem quite harsh Madam is quite right I do have too much on and I do need to separate my work time from my family time and home time.  Madam does have my best interests at heart and I am am very grateful to her.

So yet again I have been trying to make efforts to manage my work commitments better and to reestablish  that clear divide between home and work.  

I'm getting there, hopefully I'll be able to manage my time to get back into regular blog posts.

billie xxx

Straightening those Stocking Seams

 This week has not got off to a good start to be honest, with a number of things all coming together to just make things difficult.

I've been physically very tired at the end of each day, despite getting a good nights sleep.  Added to which some of my work clients have made Monday a day of misery while I tried to undo some of the stupid things that their contractors had done over the weekend.  This over spilled into Tuesday and today has been a day of catching up with what would have been originally planned for Monday.

Yes I have been a little bit cranky and some what grumpy!

However that changed with two emails that I received this afternoon.  

Several months ago I was asked to deliver some focused training to a previous client that had 3 members of staff going for professional qualifications.  I went to the company and met the 2 young men and the young woman.  The training went well and all 3 were great students to work with.  I set them some follow on training to do and told them to use me as a mentor to check on their progress.  All of them did and they were all going for their professional exams 6 weeks ago.  It appears that they got their results this week and all 3 have passed - Great! fantastic news.  That wasn't the good part of the emails I received today.

The emails were from the young woman and she was writing on behalf of all three of them to tell me that they had passed and to thank me for the help that I had given.  That gave me a real lift and made me smile, its always good to be appreciated.

The interesting part was a follow on email from the woman with a very personal thank you.

When I delivered the training it was at their company offices, using one of their small conference rooms, over the 3 days that I was there I noticed that this young woman was wearing each day either seamed stockings or seamed tights.  As someone with a stocking fetish I do tend to pay attention to these types of things.

During some of the breaks we would go to the coffee area or their kitchen area.  I, and several of the other staff members, would notice that this woman's stockings seams were crooked.  A female work colleague would occasionally point it out and she would quickly disappear and come back with seams straight.  This would be a regular part of each day.

It was interesting to overhear a conversation from some of the female staff talking about the fact that this woman couldn't keep her seams straight and their view is that she should just wear normal tights.

On my last day I had the opportunity to have a chat with the woman during the lunch break and I asked if she would object to me asking a question and perhaps offer a bit of advice.

"I notice that you keep having problems with your Seams? Are they stockings?"

A slight stunned silence and a answer of "Yes they are"

"Are you using a 4 or 6 strap suspender belt?, I suspect you are using a 4 strap belt"

I got a look that told me to be careful as your next comments might make her scream.

"My wife regularly wears seamed stockings and we have found that a vintage style 6 strap suspender belt or retro girdle keeps the seams in position."

The change in her expression was great to see. she smiled and she started to explain that she liked the retro look and liked wearing stockings but was having constant problems with keeping seems straight.  I explained that I often help ensure that my wife's seams where straight and then helped to fasten the suspender clips onto the stockings.

I pointed out that often the twisting of the body to reach the tab and pulling of the stocking to the clip occasionally pulled the seam out of position .

I also told her that rear suspender straps on a 4 strap belt did not normally line up with the seam and would often move the stocking as you sit down and stand up.  I certainly didn't go into details or the fact that I was sat there with her wearing my own 6 strap suspender belt!

So the second email that arrived today from the young woman was a very personal email with a thank you from her.  She had recently been to a 1940s weekend and her new 6 strap suspender belt had managed to keep everything in place and looking very smart.  She attached 2 photos from the weekend of her with her hair done 1940s style and looking very lovely in period dress and shoes and the second was a rear shot of her and her perfect stockings seams.  It would appear that I have helped to convert another person to retro lingerie, perhaps this is one of my missions in life? 

She ended her email with a small comment that she had even managed to encourage her boyfriend to adjust her stockings each morning before she goes to work!  To be honest I should get a thank you from her boyfriend for giving her that Idea! Lucky Lad!

Overall these emails made me smile but particularly the second email had made my day and drastically improved what had started as a rather crap work week.  It certainly made me feel better.

I hope you all have a good week.

Take care 

billie xxx

ps - here is a good short article on the topic:

how to keep the seams of your stockings straight

A drippy sissy weekend

 From Madam Alice.

Evening everyone, I thought it was about time that produced a blog post again.  I have been occupied over the last few weeks making sure that billie has been OK after spending time having to deal with his family.

I'm happy to say that he seems to have done very well and seems to be back to his normal self.  after almost 3 weeks dealing with family matters he is has almost caught up with the items of his work that had to be put on hold.

However I thought that it was time to get him back into his usual routine.  

last weekend I set him a few tasks to complete to ease him back to the submissive mindset that I like him to be in.

The challenge was to spend a number of 30 minutes sessions where he has to use his 8" dildo.  The aim was for him to stick it to a wall, chair, stool or small table and to fuck himself with the aim of achieving an anal orgasm.

The thing that I find interesting with this is that billie is far more anally focussed for his pleasure so this is a task that he enjoys.  It is rare that he achieves an anal orgasm in a single session, it happens as the time builds or in this case as he completes more sessions with his false cock.

With these 30 minute sessions I may tell him that he is only allowed to ride the dildo slowly or to I may set a condition that he does 5 minutes slow and then 1 minute as quickly as he can and then to repeat. I like to mix the conditions up so that as he approaches his next session on the dildo he doesn't know what type of pace he might get.

If I think that he is building up to an orgasm too soon I will tell him that this session will be slow.

A particular favourite is to get him to spend 5 minutes warming up with a slow fuck, and then to spend 3 minutes sat  fully impaled on the dildo then 7 minutes at a slow pace, then 4 minutes sat impaled then 5 minutes at any paced that he wants  then stop for 5 minutes fully impaled and then he has 5 minutes to try and cum.

The thing with this is that last 5 minutes is rarely enough to make him cum but once he finishes  and gets off the dlido he will start to leak quite a lot.  I like this when it happens as it is almost that he has been edged to the brink of orgasm and just has to be content with a ruined orgasm.

My dear husband spent quite a bit of the weekend being a very drippy sissy.

Well   if you excuse me it is Thursday night and I need to get ready to carry out billie's weekly review and I think some one may be getting a bit of a warm bottom this evening.