Questions, views and opinions

 From Madam Alice

at the moment billie still has to finish a post about my Friday visit to John's house for Dinner and a "stop over" from the other week.  It should be finished soon (otherwise he will be seeing it mentioned in his weekly review on Thursday).

We often get emails via the blog and often it is from people who read the blog and want to know more about us or about what we think or even ask advice or thoughts on certain things.

Some time the questions makes us want to write a very specific blog post and then there are others that are best answered directly by email.  billie tends to be the filter and responds to most.

Occasionally we get negative emails that don't like what we do and disagree with our lifestyle, which is fine.  If the email is generally polite (which most are) we will engage to explain our view point on it.  In several cases it has been to reassure people that all of this is consensual and that I am not the Evil Queen who is torturing and abusing my poor pathetic husband - which is most certainly not the case. (if nothing else Mick is not a poor pathetic husband).

We try to assure people that we are very much a loving couple and still very much in love and lust with each other - just because it doesn't conform to the particular "norm" of an individual or group doesn't mean that it is wrong, it is just different.

If we can explain things and we do try to do that in between all of the "kink" and some people get to see a different view then great, but if you don't agree with it, don't like it or it offends then please just pass us by.

We have a particular point on the blog:

    we will not discuss politics, we have our views and we have out preferences as do our friends and blog readers, you don't come to this blog for politics so we aren't going there.

    Religion - we don't care what religion our readers are and we're not particularly religious.  if you think what we are doing is abhorrent to your faith and not compatible with your faith then that's fine with us, again just pass us by.  Myself, billie/Mick and John are not particularly religious but we can understand that some people need a faith.

    Race, colour, etc - don't try and draw us into this, yes we are white, but I've had an Asian Boyfriend in the past and John has had relationships with Asian and Black women in the past.  we are not offended by any particular groups, races or nationalities.  This blog is not about that type of thing.

This image kind of sums things up -

so please enjoy our kinky blog, give us feed back via comments and if you want contact us direct with a question, but the aim is to have a blog that we enjoy and if you don't like something then we'll try and explain our view and if you are still not happy then move onto another blog there are lots of good stuff out there for everyone.

but if you like what we do then keep looking in on us.

keep safe and try to stay sane (and keep it fun!)

Very Kind Regards

Alice.

Instructions from Sir for the weekend

 At lunch time today I was just clearing Madam's plate when I heard her personal phone ping with a text, by the time I got to the kitchen my phone also pinged with a Text.

we both have 2 mobile phones, one that is for work and Vanilla usage and one that is our phone for our normal use.

My message was from Sir and it simply stated that I was to check my emails as he had sent through some instructions for the weekend.

I informed Madam of what I'd received and she also said that she had a text from John and that she would be having a conversation with him later in the afternoon.  Madam then went back to her study and I was told to bring tea and a couple of biscuits at 3 pm.

I went and changed out of my Maids outfit into pencil skirt and blouse and headed to my office.  immediately regretted not putting on a jumper or coat as it's been a bit cold today.

I opened my personal emails, and there was a email from Sir:

"billie,

This Friday evening I plan to host my Girlfriend over at my house for dinner and to fuck her senseless. I have a number of requirements and tasks for you to do to ensure that the evening runs smoothly.

Thursday - come to the house and I will have laid out some items that I will require ironing, also there is washing that will need to be done.  Ensure that there is a fresh set of bedding ready to be fitted to the bed on Friday.  Also I will have prepared a shopping list for you to take with you when you do the grocery shop on Friday morning (money will be with the list).

I will also require you to clean the kitchen.

All of this work will be carried out by the maid, you can change in the utility room when you arrive.

Friday Morning - do your normal grocery shop, but also purchase the items on my list.

Friday Afternoon - The maid is to change the bedding and prepare the bedroom, you know what needs to be placed in the bedside drawers, also bring Alice's overnight bag and hang her items in the wardrobe and lay out her toiletries in the bathroom etc.

I want the dining table set up in the end of the lounge for 2 people but with one place setting at the end and the other next to it rather than at the opposite end - I want your wife within easy reach of me during the meal.

Ensure that there is 2 bottles of white in the fridge and that there is ice in the freezer.

Ensure that the tablet is fully charged and placed in the bedroom.

I want all tasks complete by 4pm, I will be home at 4.30pm to prepare for the evening.

Friday Evening - I expect you to help prepare Alice for her evening with me, I will be chatting to her about what lingerie i'd like her to wear, she will not need a dress so she will be travelling with just her coat over the top.

You will act as her driver for the evening, I want her to arrive at my home at 7pm, sharp and I'll expect you to be dressed appropriately - jacket, blouse, skirt and heels.  ensure that you open her door for her when you arrive, if she brings another bag you are to carry it in for her, bring it in and take it to the bed room.

You will not be required for the evening, but your wife may have some tasks for you at home.

when you get home, you are to change into your maids uniform and keep your phone with you at all times.

Your wife will inform you of what will be expected of you for the evening.

I will bring Alice back to her house on Saturday at some point, we will send you a message when we are about to leave my house.

You are to send me a text message to inform me that you have read and under stood my instructions

With Regards

John"

I've sent the message back to Sir.  I took Madam her Tea and biscuits at 3pm and she said that she knew about my instructions and that she was thinking about she would give me to keep me occupied on Friday Evening.

Madam has told me she wants me to take her travel toiletries bag taken over on Friday afternoon but she will have an overnight bag go with her on Friday evening.  Madam had also directed that my skirt on Friday evening should be my short black pleated skirt rather than the dark blue knee length one.

It has the feeling that it is going to be an interesting weekend.

Dressing appropriately for the task at hand

 From Madam Alice:

Afternoon everyone, working from home today and since I started early today I'm taking a short bit of time out until my next meeting.

The thoughts for this post came from our blog friend Poppet who has recently got a new domestic maids uniform. (if you haven't seen her blog then I strongly recommend that you pop over and see what she is upto - use this link or the link in our side bar - https://poppetsubslut.blogspot.com/ )

One of the things that I like to do with billie is make sure the outfit that he wears is appropriate for the task in hand. Now this isn't just the dress or the top layer, this is the whole ensemble.

Take for example, a Domestic Maid uniform that Poppet has, billie has a similar long sleeved one, this is a functional piece of work wear, it's for doing the cleaning, mopping, hovering etc, so I also want my husband to have the rest of the outfit to be functional.

So for domestic maids wear we will have the dress, long line bra, open bottom girdle, shape wear knickers, Black opaque stockings or high denier stockings, shoes with the moderate heel 3or 4" in billie's case.  My preference is that the underwear is black.  this is all functional and practical, this isn't about getting some type of thrill for the sissy, so everything is snuggly tidied away in the underwear so that the sissy can focus on domestic work about the house.

 For the evenings or when I want a more formal maid then we go for the Sissy Maid/ French maid style.  Shorter skirt length, heels with at least 4", skirt undernet to push it out waist clincher with bra/basque/ corset etc with 6 suspenders and black stockings either seamed or lace topped.  panties will be at my discretion.  there should be some make up.  I want billie to be in the frame of mind for service to me and my guest, while being very much the sissy parody of a sexy maid.  The skirt is enough to cover her modesty but easy enough to access by wandering hands or to lift up to fully expose.

The last one on the maid front is the submissive sissy maid outfit.  this is a uniform that has one function - to humiliate the sissy, for billie this is to expose him for what he is, my submissive sissy cuckold husband (and I do love him for it).  The dress is not practical as work wear but it conveys the message that the wearer is there to serve her Alphas while exposed as the submissive beta male/sissy.

The dress will be very short and the skirt will either be held out by netting or just to short, the panties (if worn will be exposed and show the chastity in place.  A basque or corset will be worn  with black stockings, the suspenders and stocking tops are fully exposed. Heels will be 4" minimum and possibly higher with a platform sole.

This is the outfit that I have billie wear often when John is over, it clearly defines who is the male in the house and who is the submissive beta.

Billie's office attire is also aimed to be functional and appropriate.  I had an image in my head when we looked to create Ms Watson, Mick's office assistant.  The pencil skirt with a white blouse (I do like the pussy bow style for her) with black heels all suggest the office professional, black underwear probably a corselette or full bra and girdle, with plain top stockings.

The other option is the office tart, a sheer blouse, short skater skirt  and a basque and stockings, heels will be 4" or higher, this is the type of sissy that flashers her stocking tops and if not watched would go to work with no knickers on.  Ms Watson is quite capable of taking on both roles in the office.

The last type of dress uniform that we have for billie is the school outfit.  this is normally a punishment type of uniform and is often seen on a Thursday Evening.  As part of the review depending on what may have contributed to the main need for corrections will dictate what the dress for the review will be.  For example if the misdemeanours have been a lack of diligence in cleaning and maid duties then billie will attend in the French Maid uniform.  if it is more about attitude and general conduct then it will be the school girl outfit.  I will want to chastise billie, perhaps scold and apply some corporal punishment so the school outfit sets the tone and mindset for the event.

For this it is a white blouse (may be sheer), black underwear of bra, suspender belt (4 or 6 suspenders), plain top stockings and full cut panties - black or white.  Heels should be 4" minimum.  the skirt can be a short tartan skirt or short plain coloured skater skirt.

When my darling husband is told to dress in his school girl attire he knows that he is going have a sore bottom from his Head Mistress!

So you can see it I have reasons for what I require billie to dress in, it isn't just the top layer but a full package.  Yes it provides me with entertainment and it often humiliates billie but that's what makes our relationship go round.  

Back into a routine.

 Hello everyone, hope you are all well.

it's been a while since we have blogged properly and we have had a few things going on, some good and some not so good.

so lets get the rubbish bit done - I've been using a lot of my free blogging time dealing with hunting down and deleting Spam comments and problems that we have had with the blog and this has at times been quite demoralising the worst that we had was 50 spam posts in a day and not only does that clog the blog page it also clogs up the emails.  I am getting on top of it but it is a pain and consumes a lot of time.

The other think that has been causing an issue and consuming time has been a increase in work that relates to doing training and assessing via on line.  now this is an area of work that normally I enjoy but with everyone's rush to have training delivered on line has meant that quite a lot of Organisations want me to deliver training but don't quite understand the way the training has to be delivered.  so I've had a lot of work explaining things to the Organisations and Colleges how to deliver the training.  

However it hasn't just been all work, we have been able to get back into our normal routine.

Our neice has now fully moved into her new home and started work and we have the house back.  After moving the last of her belongings from storage and having taken the hire van back myself and Madam returned home and collapsed down on the living room settee. After about 5 minutes just sat gathering ourselves Madam made the announcement - "Right go to your room, get undressed, put on some heels - and nothing else and make me a cup of Tea!" 

off I went and by the time Madam reappeared she was just in a pair of heels with stockings and a suspender belt.  we spent the rest of the evening in that state of undress.  As Madam put it, "guests don't realise how much of an disruption it is when you have to refrain from receiving oral sex in your own lounge", which I thought was an interesting way of putting it!

The back log of lingerie washing has been dealt with, and I'm very much back in my Maids room and the Morning Routine is back in place with me bringing Madam her morning coffee and waking her with my tongue.

The mornings are pretty much my domestic chores and the afternoons have me down in the office - Ms Watson is not really in attendance as my afternoon is pretty much filled with Skype/ Teams/ Zoom meetings and that is a real hassle as everything is now a bloody meeting on line, where as in the past it would be a email, phone call or go out and visit the client.  it is just too easy to "have a meeting!" so as a rule it's a case of wearing my lingerie, a coloured blouse with tie, my jacket and a pair of chinos.  I can get away with heels but thats about it.  Madam is toying with the idea of a woman's trouser suit but she's not found one that she thinks would work for me.  Its an interesting idea though, Madam has always been keen on the idea of getting a skirt and jacket suit for office wear, this may just be the evolution of it.

Madam has been working from home, generally one or two days a week. normally the days she would have gone into London, Its really nice having her at home (and fun when we don't have part time lodgers). but it also allows me to serve he a little bit more formally during the day.

John has restarted coming round as the regular house guest rather than as a friend popping over to catch up with Alice and Mick.  so things are starting to begin again on that front.

overall we are all well.  All three of us are busy but getting our routine back on track.  hopefully I can keep on top of the Spam issues and get back to some sort of regular blogging.

One last point, we've had several emails, mixed in with the spam emails, hopefully we have responded to everyone that emailed via the Blog.  We do try and answer all of the emails, even the critical ones, if we have missed you please try and gain and we'll aim to get a responce to you either by return email or via a post here on the blog.